The bar spirit appears and responds calmly.
How to convince others effectively? Uncle Feng has something to say! He said that it is easiest to convince for things with experience and technical standards. For example, if you splash him with a basin of cold water and let him feel the cold, it will be easy to change his opinion.
But when there are differences in values, morals, and ideologies, it is difficult to convince each other. Because moral standards are regional and temporal, they cannot be discussed in a misplaced time and space.
Therefore, persuade others to analyze specific problems on a case-by-case basis.
Many times, the collision and conflict of moral concepts can make people feel powerless and confused. It seems difficult to reach a consensus when you stick to your own ideas and others stick to theirs.
In this case, I would choose to avoid in-depth discussions, because I know that it will be difficult to convince people on this issue. Historically, ideological differences have been resolved through violent means, such as war and prisons.
It is difficult to have room for discussion on ideological issues, but there is still some room for moral issues. If I don't fit into the morals of a place, I can choose to adapt to the environment.
Now,"The three views do not agree"It has become a common Internet term used to describe people's inconsistencies in worldview, outlook on life and values. This also means that on many issues, it is difficult for us to convince each other.
Treat the essence of the bar without losing the principle": In the face of the essence of the bar, we do not need to blindly refute or argue. First of all, we must understand that they are on the same page, and then decide whether to understand, tolerate or coexist according to the specific situation.
For technical and professional issues, we can discuss standards and reach a consensus. However, we should have our own insistence on morality, three views, and ideology, but we do not have to impose them on others.
It is important to stick to your own principles while also respecting the views of others in order to achieve harmony in your relationship with others. Therefore, when encountering the essence of the bar, we must deal with it rationally, not only without losing the principle, but also know how to tolerate and understand.
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