I advise you to go to other people's homes as guests and keep an eye on them. Go to someone else's house as a guest, the host is warm, don't take it too seriously.
I have a silly friend who makes jokes when he goes to someone's house during the Chinese New Year.
When he went, he happened to meet someone else eating lunch, and this friend was also stupid, when he didn't go, but when someone else was eating, this was the first mistake he made: to go to someone else's house for dinner.
Forget about the meal, he didn't bring anything empty, he didn't bring anything, he didn't bring fruits, he didn't bring gifts, he didn't bring anything empty, and he didn't bring some red envelopes to the elderly and children in his New Year's pockets, which was the second mistake he made: he didn't bring any gifts to other people's homes.
The hostess saw that he was empty-handed, and although her face was a little displeased, since someone else came, she had to show enthusiasm, even if it was hypocritical enthusiasm. The host who is eating is concerned about asking me if this friend has eaten, my friend is also an honest man, to be honest that he has not eaten, the words are on this, the "enthusiastic" host naturally wants to greet my friend just right, by the way here to eat, my friend is an honest person, responded to the sentence "Okay".
The funniest thing is that although the host enthusiastically called for dinner here, a table was full, but no one wanted to add a pair of dishes and chopsticks and a stool or something. The two sides were embarrassed for a few seconds, and my friend's mind was blank for a few seconds before he woke up and quickly added, "I forgot to ask someone else to go to the street at half past 12", and then fled and left this embarrassing place. It's really embarrassing, the owner called others to stay and eat, and he just said it casually, it was just a polite remark, but he didn't expect the other party to agree, and the master was caught off guard, and he was there all of a sudden. This is the third mistake he made: he couldn't understand people!
When I came back, my friend told me about this, and I laughed to death, I really don't understand human feelings at all, and honest people really take everything seriously.
I told him, you are just too honest, others take everything seriously, and you don't know how to read words and feelings, so you made such a big joke, and you can have a little heart in the future.
When you go to someone else's house, you must first bring some gifts, fruit specialties can be, you really can't mention a carton of milk Wang Laoji or the like, in short, you can't be empty-handed. No matter how intimate the relationship is, don't be empty-handed, the courtesy is not strange, and the courtesy is light and affectionate.
Go to other people's houses, fruits, nuts, melon seeds on the coffee table, don't eat too much, taste one or two meanings, eat too much others think you are starving, it's not good to eat any of them, others think you can't look down on them. Especially nuts, chocolates and other relatively expensive ones, don't eat too much, although they may not be worth a few dollars, otherwise others will think you haven't eaten them.
If the owner looks at the watch from time to time, looks up at the wall clock, or goes back to the room, or snores, or yawns, or deliberately asks the child "what time is it, don't go to the bath, don't go to sleep yet" and the like, then you should know that you should leave, and if you don't leave, you don't understand the rules. When the host made these moves, he was actually giving an eviction order, and a smart person would not wait for the master to hint before leaving, which would be rude.
Go to someone else's house, if you really want to stay to eat, pay more attention to the face of the person in the kitchen, others have worked hard to make a table of dishes for you, whether it is delicious or not, it must be very hard, it is said that the most high-end banquet is a family banquet, and it is really tiring to make a table of meals, so no matter whether it is delicious or not, you must not be stingy with your praise and thanks, praise the food is delicious and exquisite, thank others for their hard work, this is the greatest respect for others.
If you go to someone else's house, if you are clearly going to eat, bring your own wine, bring drinks and so on, although others will also prepare, but you also bring your own sincerity and friendship. I have a friend, he is very good at things, usually a few classmates to a certain classmate dinner or something, he will always bring some wine or dishes or something, bring wine and say which wine is this, or that it is made by himself for some years, or that he has drunk and thinks it is good to drink wine together with everyone to taste and taste, bring the food and say that he just passed by the vegetable market, look fresh and bring along the way, in short, it is very natural, so that others are easy to accept, this kind of person goes to eat, the host will toast two more glasses of wine.
If you have children, you can bring some delicious and fun toys to the children, if the hostess is also there, the man can bring some cosmetics to the hostess, but in order to avoid suspicion, you can say that your wife asked you to bring the hostess, so as to avoid suspicion, and it is a good reflection that your wife also attaches great importance to bilateral relations, and suddenly pulls into the relationship between the two families, if you are not afraid of avoiding suspicion, but also purely want to please the hostess, I advise you to stop, It's better to give it secretly.
When you go to someone else's house, pay attention to the time, not too early, not too late, and try to avoid meals, unless someone explicitly invites them to eat. It's best to make an appointment with someone else in advance before you go to see if it's convenient for them and if they're available.
When you go to someone else's house, try to control the activity area in the living room and dining room, don't look here and there, don't go into other people's rooms, and try not to go to the toilet in other people's houses if it is not necessary. The room is a very private space, enter without permission, very impolite, even if the owner asks you to visit casually, don't really enter the room to visit, no one wants their private space to be invaded by others. The same goes for toilets, where personal belongings are hung.
You can go to the kitchen to talk to the host, ask the host if you need help or something, the host is busy cooking in the kitchen, you sit on the sofa in the living room and wait to eat, which doesn't seem to be good, or the host has to come out from time to time while cooking to chat with you, so as not to feel that the guests are left out. Therefore, guests can go to the kitchen and take the opportunity to help and chat with the host, which is easier to enhance the relationship.