Introduction: The scene of participating in the blind date yesterday is vivid, and the first time I met, I couldn't help but set off ripples in my heart. The other party's monthly salary of 6,000 made me hesitate, and finally chose to take the opportunity to leave. In fact, everyone's requirements for the other half are different, and the reality of life makes people have to think deeply about the choice. Between pickiness and pursuit, how should you choose to find the most suitable person for yourself?
Participated in a blind date last night, dress politely, and always pay attention to make a good impression. Exquisite makeup, graceful clothing, looking forward to the possibility of encounters. CoffeeIn the museum, the man waited quietly, and the mobile phone occasionally vibrated slightly, at this moment, the tension and expectation of seeing each other were intertwined. When you meet for the first time, how to grasp the proportions and how to see each other's inner world, these questions cannot be predicted at the moment, and you can only follow fate.
Expanding: Walking through that door, it's like stepping into another worldCoffeeAromas and soft lighting intertwine to create an idyllic atmosphere. The man sat there, tilting his head slightly, looking out the window at the empty street scene, and I noticed a helplessness in his eyes. Many questions arose in my mind, what kind of person he was, what kind of story he had in his heart, and all these became mysteries in my heart that could not be dissolved.
During the conversation, the other party's living status gradually revealed: the family burden is heavy, the work has been working for many years, and the monthly income is 7,000. Taking out loans to buy houses, supporting families, and honoring parents, the responsibilities behind them are as heavy as Mount Tai. All efforts are for a better life and a happier family. However, the pressure of life and the coldness of reality make his monthly salary seem rich, but in fact it is a drop in the bucket.
Expanding: The other party's voice carries a trace of calmness and perseverance, and his eyes reveal a kind of firmness and responsibility. In every detail of what he said, I seemed to see the image of a man who was silently dedicated and hardworking. There is a kind of helplessness in his narrative, but more of an unyielding and tenacious one. Perhaps, his life is not easy, but he still chooses to stick to it and pay silently, and this responsibility and responsibility makes me respect.
There are many thoughts, and the living situation of the other party makes me think deeply. With a monthly salary of 6,000, is such an economic foundation enough to support future life? All kinds of expenses after marriage and children's education have become unavoidable problems in front of us. I have my own life, a monthly salary of 9,000 yuan, and a small house of more than 30 square meters, although it is not luxurious, it is enough to maintain my independent state. After thinking about it, I rejected the blind date, because the road of life cannot be compromised, let alone take risks.
Expanding: Complex thoughts come like a tide, struggling between ideal and reality. I would like to spend time together for love, but I would like to have a stable and fulfilling family. The other person may be a good man to rely on, but in my life, the responsibilities he bears and the pressure of the future do not give me peace of mind. ModernSocialCompetition is fierce, and what people are looking for is not only a relationship, but also a possibility to support each other and grow together. Therefore, I wisely chose to leave, because love is a matter of two people, and there should not be only one person who bears it silently.
Conclusion: Everyone's choice is brave, and for a better life, rational choice is necessary. For love, you should not act hastily, let alone compromise. I firmly believe that only by finding the most suitable person for yourself can the door to happiness be opened. May everyone cherish their choices, bravely pursue the true love in their hearts, and live up to the time and years.