Hotspot Engine Project recently read a quote from Warren Buffett and it resonated deeply. I didn't expect Warren Buffett, an investment master, to have such a profound insight into human nature.
He pointed out that when you find that your interests are being harmed, it is important to take a stand immediately. Immediately express your position, be reasonable, and show your courage. If you make a statement afterwards, it will appear that you are stingy and calculating.
Take a stand right away and let people understand your bottom line and know that you are not easy to mess with. If you say it after a few months, everyone will think you're a troublemaker.
Remember, if kindness is not respected, then the most direct way to resolve relationships is to take a stand. Do you agree with this view?
Many people, originally kind-hearted, have to learn to stick to the bottom line; Many people, who were originally serious and down-to-earth, have to learn to master proportions; Many people are accustomed to suffering, but they have to learn to see people and recognize people; Many people, originally with a gentle personality, have to learn to speak bravely. All of this change is because of being bullied.
In this world, not everyone will not hurt you because you are kind, mad dogs will not, and villains will not either. If you have been tolerant and kind, you may be despised. In the adult world, there is no such thing as easy. If life is not compelled by life, who wants to force themselves to show their talents and become tough?
There are occasions that you don't like, but you can't get rid of; There are some lives that you don't like, but you can't escape; There are some people you don't like, but you have to face every day; There are some things that you don't like, but you have to do; There are some things that you don't like, but you have to say.
If your kindness is not sharp, you will suffer endless bullying.
If kindness is not respected, then the most direct way to solve interpersonal relationships is to express oneself. If you don't take a stand immediately, you have to endure the shameless behavior of others. When you mention it afterwards, you no longer have the aura of the time, but it will make people think that you are troublesome.
At all stages of life, we have to face them one by one, overcome them one by one, and let them go one by one. There is no way, only by cultivating the bodhisattva's heart, with the vajra method, you can not only get on the horse to kill the enemy, but also get off the horse to study, not only have the quality of being gentle as jade, but also have the temperament of smiling and proud, this is the best state that we Chinese should have.