Children's education
In the night last night, I looked at the once confident child in front of me, but now tears rippled in my heart, and I couldn't help but feel a mixed emotion in my heart. Yesterday, he experienced a small setback in his life - he fell from the rocket class to the ordinary class. In the face of such a change, he may have endured his emotions at school and behaved calmly. But the moment he returned home, all his strength collapsed in an instant, and tears poured out like a flood.
What should I say in such a situation? I carefully reassured him, telling him that as long as he tried, the result didn't matter. However, I know in my heart the powerlessness of this sentence. In the face of reality, we can't deny that learning at the high school level does depend heavily on IQ. That's why last night, I consoled him with the phrase "high school spells IQ".
However, this does not mean that the effort is insignificant. On the contrary, hard work is necessary for success. IQ may determine a person's upper limit, but hard work can determine a person's lower limit. At this stage of high school, every student is fighting for their own future, and hard work is the most reliable in their hands.
I've heard a story about two people climbing a mountain together, one of them is very talented, and the other is ordinary. The gifted climbed to the top of the mountain with ease, while the ordinary and unremarkable struggled. However, when they meet at the top of the mountain, the sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that the latter achieves is incomparable to that of the former. This is because he has put in more effort and experienced more setbacks, and therefore cherishes this hard-won success even more.
Going back to my child's question, I told him that setbacks in high school don't mean failures in a lifetime. As long as he is willing to put in the effort, there will always be something to gain. And this effort will also become the most valuable asset in his life. In this world, no one can succeed casually. Those people who seem to have infinite scenery have put in unimaginable efforts behind them.
So, child, please don't be discouraged and don't be discouraged. It's true that high school spells IQ, but hard work is just as important. As long as you're willing to give, there's always something in return. And this reward will be the most precious treasure in your life. Remember, success always belongs to those who keep trying. Come on, kid, I'm sure you'll be able to walk out of your own wonderful life!