Whenever we talk about security, we all habitually think of women.
It is undeniable that some girls are indeed prone to gains and losses when they are in love, all kinds of insecurity, and then lose their temper with their boyfriends.
Sometimes, they don't know why they are the way they are.
In desperation, I can only blame it on caring too much.
Because you care, you are careful, and because you care, you gain and lose.
Objectively speaking, when falling in love, women lack a sense of security, and part of the reason is because they care too much.
In the same way, for men, they will also become sensitive because they care about each other.
So,Insecurity is not exclusive to women, in fact, men are also lacking.
It's just that men's insecurity is slightly different from women's, and women are generally just all kinds of cranky thoughts, and then start to make trouble.
Men, on the other hand, tend to be possessive and controlling.
So, for women, if their boyfriend has this situation, how should they deal with it?
In fact, it is not difficult to say this, since it is a lack of security, then make up for him, and doing these three points is the key!
1.Attentive care.
Gentle and considerate care is a good medicine to soothe a man's restless mind.
In life, men often appear silent and introverted because of all kinds of stress and anxiety.
At this time, a woman's gentleness and thoughtfulness are like a clear spring that can nourish their hearts.
Care about his work and life, pay attention to his emotional changes, and give him support and encouragement when he needs it.
When men feel the warmth and affection from a woman, their uneasiness and anxiety are relieved.
At the same time, the relationship between the two will become deeper and deeper.
2.Timely dependence.
Making a man feel dependent on him is also an effective way to increase his sense of security.
Most men, in fact, crave recognition and dependence.
Especially in a relationship, a woman's dependence can make him more confident.
Once a man's self-confidence comes up, then the sense of security will naturally not be lacking.
Therefore, women satisfy this psychological need of men through moderate dependence, for example, asking for his opinion on some things, asking him to help solve problems, etc.
3.Plenty of trust.
Trust is the cornerstone of any emotional relationship and is especially important to enhance a man's sense of security.
Trust building requires both parties to work together, but women can start with themselves and give men full trust and respect.
When it comes to things, good communication is key.
No matter how big or small the matter is, don't hide anything from a man.
Honest and transparent communication can help both parties better understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and enhance mutual trust.
At the same time, women should also give men enough personal space and independence, respecting their privacy and choices.
In fact, men are also human beings, so they will also have a vulnerable and sensitive side.
Especially when they are in love, in the face of the person they trust the most, whether it is the tenacious side, the soft and affectionate side, or the sensitive and irritable side, they will show it unreservedly.
Such a man, although not perfect, is complete.
For women, learn to appreciate their good side and accept their bad side.
Only in this way can two people be together in order to develop positively and be happy!
Finally, I want to say that,Insecure men are actually quite easy to coax ......
Sexual affection