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In the workplace, people with weak personalities and easy to talk about will always do the most things, and in order not to offend people, they always silently endure all kinds of unreasonable demands made by others.
If it sounds good, it takes into account the overall situation, and if it is ugly, it is a soft persimmon that is taken by others at will.
I just entered the social work after graduating from university, and I faced the bullying of my old colleagues and threw the responsible work to me, I never resisted, and accepted it silently.
It wasn't until I chatted with my colleagues who joined the company at the same time that I knew that because she was stronger, from the first day of employment to the present, the old colleagues didn't dare to treat her as a soft persimmon.
Later, with her help, I learned to speak my mind boldly, and slowly changed from soft persimmons to hard persimmons, and that's when I realized:Weakness is not the same as kindness, don't grieve yourself in order to cater to others.
Share it with girls with soft persimmon personalities4 pcsI hope that you will no longer be manipulated by others after you learn the methods of change.
01.Stay away from the people who hit you
If you have people around you who like to break other people's self-confidence, stay away from them!
These people don't see the good of others, and they won't encourage you, but will make you sarcastic when you have managed to build up your self-confidence, and make you fall to the bottom again.
02.Learn to express your feelings
You feel offended when talking to someone about somethingHave the courage to express your attitude, don't be silent, don't take things to heart and bear it alone.
You know, if you don't keep quiet, they will only think that you are a soft persimmon, and they will become even more disrespectful to you.
03.Stick to your values
Everyone is an independent individual, and they will have their own values, so don't give up and change your values because of the cynicism of others.
Please don't doubt whether your values are correct, everyone's growth environment is different, so they will create different values, and what suits you is right.
04.Reach out to great people
Those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red.
Socialize more with people around you who can regain your confidence, and contact more people who are full of positive energy, and you will become confident and cheerful because of these people.
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