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In the three years of the trough, I have experienced many failures and setbacks, learned a lot of lessons, and accumulated a lot of valuable experience.
I have reviewed and summarized these experiences, hoping to bring some reflection and reference to you who read this note.
1.If you want to counterattack, you must learn to admit defeat.
In the face of failure, sometimes you really have to put down your face and learn to admit defeat.
If you don't admit defeat, it is often difficult to face your mistakes from the bottom of your heart, and if you are unwilling to make thorough reviews and changes, you will have no chance of turning defeat into victory.
There will be a lot of setbacks in life, which can be regarded as a tempering given by God, and God has arranged a path for you, just follow this road and work hard to do it.
Judging from the failures of the past few years, my own growth experience, setbacks and failures in life are inevitable, so the focus is on the mentality of facing it.
2.Don't fight battles you can't afford to lose.
Since failure is inevitable, minimize the cost of failure.
The tangible costs, such as the money paid, the time invested, etc., are certainly lost, but more importantly, the intangible costs paid because of failure, such as confidence.
To minimize the cost, you can use the cost of money and time as a tuition fee, and learn from it, which is also another kind of earning.
3.Focus on high academic ability, not high academic qualifications.
Academic qualifications reflect the academic process behind a person, and it is indeed an important period of learning and Xi experience in life.
A high degree can endorse your ability, has its reference value, but does not represent everything, on the contrary, I pay more attention to a person's "academic ability", that is, learning Xi, a person's ability to learn Xi, and a person's ability is often not "taught", but "experienced" in life and work, with the ability to learn Xi for life, more important than academic qualifications.
4.Have a growth mindset.
A growth mindset is relative to a fixed mindset.
People with a growth mindset will gladly accept the changes in the general environment, regard various challenges as opportunities for learning Xi and self-improvement, and believe that ability is not immutable, it can be obtained and improved through acquired efforts.
5.Shame on your life.
A lot of times, we don't achieve anything, not because we're not smart enough, but because we can't put our heads down.
A person's success starts from shamelessness, if you want face too much, you have to accept the shamelessness of others, those who are successful, must throw off their arms, desperate, how can they have time to consider meaningless face.
6.Recognize the situation and turn bad things into good things.
When encountering things, each of us has a different first reaction, which usually affects our decision-making level, the so-called thinking determines behavior, which leads us to make wrong actions. Therefore, when we encounter something bad, adjust our first reaction immediately and recognize the situation, maybe the bad thing will become a good thing.
7.Always have the confidence to make a comeback.
When you don't mix well, you must learn to be flexible and break the routine in order to get out of the predicament.
And to have the courage to deal with changes, people who have confidence in themselves, no matter when, always believe that they can overcome all external difficulties, and always believe that the road must come out on their own.
8.Look forward to the trend and turn the predicament into a lively situation.
In the three years of the epidemic, I believe that many people have encountered difficulties, although it is a crisis, it also means opportunities.
There are still many people around me who have broken through the predicament and achieved a counterattack by learning Xi and judging the trend, and in the case of being laid off by the company.
9.Transcend yourself and create personal value.
Never believe that a person can easily achieve success, and it is never for nothing, so a person who truly realizes the value of his life will also transcend pain and ultimately achieve happiness.
10.Not taking risks is the biggest risk in life.
The biggest risk in life is not taking risks.
Born in sorrow and dying in peace, stability is the biggest risk in life.
Sometimes, opportunities and risks are the same, and taking risks can sometimes make a person's life path wider and easier, rather than becoming more and more passive.
No matter what age you are, don't live up to your best self!
Change every sentence "I can't" to "I can learn", and change every sentence "I don't dare" to "I will do it", it is better to try than never dare to start!Different choices will bring you different life paths.
As long as you identify what you really want in your heart and continue to work hard for it, everyone will be a winner in their own life!
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