Whether or not you can start over after a relationship breakdown depends on a variety of factors. Here are some signs that may help you tell if you can start over:
Whether both parties are willing: The most important thing is whether both partners are willing to start the relationship again. If only one partner has the will, and the other partner has lost faith in the relationship, it will be very difficult to start over.
Causes and circumstances: Consider the reasons and circumstances for the breakdown of the relationship. If the cause is a solvable problem, such as miscommunication or mutual misunderstanding, then it is possible to start over. But if the cause is serious deception or betrayal, it can be difficult to rebuild trust.
Emotional scars: Broken relationships often leave emotional scars. These scars take time to heal, but if both parties are able to be honest about the problem and handle it properly, then the scars may heal gradually.
Change and Growth: Both parties need to have a willingness to change and grow. Through reflection and self-improvement, learn to better deal with emotional problems and enhance your emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills.
New beginnings: If both partners have the idea of a new beginning and are willing to revisit the relationship and rebuild the relationship, there may be an opportunity to start over.
Time and distance: Sometimes time and distance can help ease emotional tension and conflicts, making it easier for both parties to start over. But if the two parties see each other often, it can make the relationship more complicated.
Most importantly, starting a relationship over requires joint efforts and commitment from both partners. If both partners are willing to try, and are able to be honest about the problem and deal with the emotional conflict properly, it is possible to start over after the relationship breaks down. But if you don't meet the conditions for starting over, it may be better to let go of the past and move on to the future.