After a breakup, many people will be entangled in the face of gifts from their exes or items left behind: should they keep or throw them away?
It seems to have become a measure of affection. However, do true emotions depend on these objects? Let's talk about this together.
True love doesn't need to be deliberately expressed:
In a relationship, true love does not depend on whether or not you throw away your ex's gifts or belongings.
Leaving these things behind doesn't mean you still have feelings for your ex, and likewise, throwing them away doesn't mean you've forgotten the past.
True affection is based on mutual understanding and respect, not superficial behavior.
Respect each other's past:
Keeping a gift or item from an ex does not imply disloyalty to the current relationship.
Rather, it is a kind of respect and remembrance of the past, a memory of the good old days.
And, if the items are still useful, keeping them is also a practical consideration.
Authentic considerations of emotion:
Testing the sincerity of an ex by leaving or discarding his or her ex's belongings is often only a superficial exercise.
What really matters is the communication and understanding of each other, as well as the genuine consideration of each other's emotions.
If the other person can understand your feelings and respect your choice, this is the real expression of emotion.
A little temptation to dispose of your ex's belongings:
Sometimes, people test each other's emotional attitudes by handling their ex's belongings.
However, this temptation is often just a game, and true emotion should be based on mutual trust and understanding.
If the other person can respect your feelings and respond rationally, this is true emotional maturity.
Love is not built on the loss of your ex's belongings, true love is based on mutual understanding, respect and trust.
It doesn't matter if you leave or throw away your ex's belongings, what matters is the heart-to-heart and emotional communication with each other.
Let's abandon too many entanglements, manage and cherish the feelings in front of us with our hearts.
What do you think about handling your ex's belongings? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comment section!