A mother said in a private message that her son is nine years old, and he was still more motivated to study in the first and second grades.
But as they get older, they become less and less interested in learning. In the past, when I came home from school, I always finished my homework before going to play, but now I go home and throw my schoolbag aside, and go to play games first.
Bao's mother urged her son to hurry up and do his homework, but she didn't expect the child to always be slow and always said that he would go later. But when it came, it was evening.
Wrong learning methods and poor learning outcomes
You said that the child did not master the correct learning method when learning, which led to unsatisfactory academic results and reduced the child's enthusiasm for learning.
If the child is unable to find a learning method that suits him, it will be difficult to improve his academic performance, and the child will be even more reluctant to learn.
The child is not interested enough in learning
Some children think that learning is a very boring thing, and they do not get pleasure in learning, so they are not interested enough in learning.
When a child is not interested in learning, he will not spend time and energy to take the initiative to do it, but will focus his energy on other things that interest him.
Interest is important, but not a panacea
Just like Lang Lang, in addition to his talent and interest, he can become an internationally renowned piano master, and a lot of it is due to his father Lang Guoren, who forced him to study and practice hard. After discovering Lang Lang's love and talent for **, his father has developed a strict practice schedule since he was in elementary school. I get up at 5:45 a.m. every morning to practice, go home at noon and practice until school in the afternoon, and then practice after school after eating and writing homework.
The young Lang Lang once encountered setbacks because of his father's ** and the game"Not interested anymore"I want to give up learning the piano. Fortunately, under the guidance of his father, he persevered and won numerous heavyweight awards to become one of the top pianists in the world.
Improve children's reading ability and change children's original knowledge memory.
How do you say that? Why do children read wrong, in fact, many times when children read aloud, they do not read the textbook, but rely on their own memory to read. Reading aloud verbatim can change the sense of language memory that exists in a child's brain.
To sum up, the biggest advantage of reading aloud word by word is to quickly help children recognize all the words that have been read aloud, get rid of all the words they don't know, and they will naturally see the text clearly in the future reading, and then read aloud, not reading aloud at will, which can also be used as a training to improve attention.
Set goals that are within your child's reach
In fact, for letting children learn actively, we should do it step by step, and rushing to achieve it will not have a good result.
However, there are still many parents who have high expectations for their children, and will always set a higher goal for their children, so that a child who is obviously in the middle and lower reaches of the grades, but requires the child to get the first place, no matter how hard the child tries, they will not be able to complete this goal, and even because of the higher goal, they will have the idea of giving up on themselves.
Therefore, when we set goals for children, we must be within the scope of children's ability, through small goals one by one, so that children can gradually complete the big goals, which will make children more willing to persevere.
Use top student notes to motivate your child
Today I want to recommend to you a set of dry notes that bring together excellent notes from versions across the country——"Xueba Notes Elementary School".。If your child doesn't have the habit of taking notes, then this book is a good choice and can be used as a reference book for pre-review.
The book covers the important knowledge points of primary school grades 1-6, I hope it can bring you strength, the future is undecided, every child who works hard is a dark horse!
This set of top student notes is specializedDesigned for the primary school levelof, fully coveredChinese, Mathematics, EnglishThe three main subjects record the basic knowledge points, key points, difficult points, test points and error-prone points of primary school, etc., and turn these "difficult problems" into scoring questions in minutes!
Chinese + Mathematics + English, three volumes with 708 pages, full of knowledge. Every knowledge point in the book is the key content of children's primary school stage, common test points, read these three volumes of notes, quickly get the key points of knowledge, and it is difficult to get a high score!
The layout is clear and scientific, and the content is clearly prioritizedThe important and difficult points are marked in color, and the memory is more reliable.
We can find that good notes can always make people's eyes shine, and this set of "Xueba Notes" does this very well.
Left and right columns, the main and secondary are clear, and the layout is clean.
Dark color annotation of key and difficult points, concise learning, clear focus, more efficient learning.
The main column records the knowledge points, and the sub-column records the thoughts and thoughts of the child in learning.
The difficult part, comics**, is easier to raise
Difficult knowledge with interesting comics to facilitate children's understanding.
The knowledge in the book,It is all handwrittenAt first glance, it really looks like a handwritten feeling, the form is lively, ** complements each other, enough to arouse children's interest in reading.
I believe that this set of notes inspired by the notes of outstanding top students can help children clear their minds and sort out their messy brainsConduct targeted review of important and difficult points and check for omissions and fill in the gapsIt can really improve children's academic performance and comprehensive ability.
Moreover, after the child reads this set of books, they may follow the way of thinking of sorting out and summarizing the knowledge points in the book, and draw their own exclusive study notes.