Love is often praised as the most dazzling fireworks in the sky, bright and short-lived, making people forget the passage of time and the grinding of life under its dazzling light.
However, when the fireworks fade away, what is left behind is the tranquility of the night sky and the contemplation of reality. Idealized depictions of love, such as "the moon represents my heart", often put lovers in sweet dreams, but they can also make people ignore the other side of love - the test of reality.
In a remote mountain village in Guizhou, the confrontation between love and reality is vividly displayed. The parents have reluctance and worry in their eyes, and they know that behind the sentence "the daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents", there are all kinds of worries hidden.
When the daughter decided to marry thousands of miles away, the hearts of the parents fluttered with the sound of the wheels of the carriage that was going farther and farther. They are not only worried about whether their daughter will be happy in her new home, but also about what kind of life challenges and homesickness their daughter will face because of the distance away from thousands of mountains and rivers.
Marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog", this old saying is not only a traditional concept for many girls who marry far away, but also a helpless reality.
In the new environment, they have to adapt to the customs, language and customs, and even different life rhythms and working styles of different places.
These challenges often far exceed their expectations, and the longing for home is like a long stream of water, accumulating over time, gradually converging into a river in their hearts.
In the confrontation between reality and ideals, sometimes love needs not only the tenderness of holding hands and looking at each other, but also the courage to overcome many difficulties.
This courage is vividly reflected in the two old brothers. They trekked 400 miles, over lofty mountains, just to meet their sister who was married far away, and the love in this action was more moving than a thousand words.
In their footsteps, we seem to hear the echo of the old saying: "The road is long, I will go up and down and seek." Their persistence and hard work are the best footnotes to the age-old theme of brotherly and sisterly affection.
When the brothers finally saw their sister after a long absence, the tears at that moment were touching that all words could not express. In their embrace, there is both the joy of reunion and the possible sadness of farewell.
This scene touched the heartstrings of countless people, and their stories quickly attracted huge attention and repercussions on the Internet.
As a popular ancient poem on the Internet said: "Thousands of mountains and birds fly away, and thousands of people disappear." Their stories seem to take us back to the long past, and feel the sincerity of family affection that remains unchanged even if the world changes.
On social platforms, netizens expressed their opinions and emotions. Some people praise this as the triumph of sincere emotions, while others lament the loneliness and helplessness brought about by the elongation of the distance between people in modern society.
Many netizens shared the concept of "home and everything is prosperous", emphasizing that no matter how far you go, the direction of home and the harbor of family affection will never change.
At the same time, there are also voices reflecting on the development of technology, although transportation and communication are becoming more and more convenient, but sincere interpersonal and emotional communication has also been enhanced.
In this story, behind every long journey with rolling wheels, there is a sacrifice and deep longing for home of a woman who marries far away.
This sacrifice is not only a geographical distance, but also a cultural, linguistic and even spiritual leap. Society has complex views and understandings of the phenomenon of long-distance marriage.
Some people think that it is the freedom of personal choice and the triumph of love; Others see it as a challenge to traditional family notions or even a loss of culture and emotion.
As the saying goes: "The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own kennels", no matter where they are, people always have a special affection for their original hometown.
As we reflect on modern transportation and communication, we can't help but ask: are these technological advances really bringing people closer together?
The high-speed train and the instantaneous message transmission seem to make thousands of miles within reach, but has the inner distance also been shortened?
As "close at hand, far away in the sky" describes, physical proximity does not always dissolve the gap between the mind.
On the balance between love and reality, balancing the two does require wisdom and rational planning. We can't just be fooled by the sweet words of love and ignore the difficulties and challenges in reality.
At the same time, we can't completely ignore the value of love, and just live within the framework of reality. Just as a navigator needs a compass, we need rational planning as a guide to navigate the ocean of love. In this way, we can find our own harbor in the turbulent life.
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