The older generation often says: "On Chinese New Year's Eve reunion night, no outsiders can be left", who can be considered outsiders?
The Spring Festival has always been a traditional festival in our country, and people who work outside in this festival will basically return to their hometowns, accompany their families to have a reunion dinner and watch the Spring Festival Gala, and spend this warm and sweet New Year. There is a saying in many places: "On the night of the reunion on Chinese New Year's Eve, no outsiders can be left", which talents can be regarded as outsiders? Let's give you a brief introduction.
People who are not related by blood. The meal eaten on Chinese New Year's Eve is called a reunion dinner, which means that the whole family will sit around the table and eat this meal, which means that the family is healthy and the family is reunited in the new year. In such a situation, no one wants to accept a person who is not related by blood to the house. 
Because their arrival will not only affect the lively atmosphere at home, but also make the family unable to let go. In this case, refuse if you can, and even if the person looks pitiful, you can't easily agree to his request. It's not just about the individual, it's about the whole family.
People who are related by blood but are emotionally indifferent. In the eyes of many people, our parents are the closest people in our lives, and this is indeed the case. After all, our parents gave us life and raised us**, and no one will give everything to us except our parents. When we grow up, we need to put our parents first, and our siblings second. It was said. Although in addition to our parents, there will be some relatives who are related to us by blood, but these relatives should also have a good relationship. 
But in fact, this is not the case, some relatives usually do not have much contact, even if there is something he will not take the initiative to reach out to help you. There is nothing wrong with such an emotionally indifferent relative coming to the house to go through the motions and nagging, but if you want to stay at home on Chinese New Year's Eve, you can't take it in. After all, Chinese New Year's Eve is a day of reunion, and no one wants to see a relative who cannot integrate into the family on a festive day.
Married daughter. I don't know when it will begin, the daughter who has been married will be considered an outsider by her mother's family. In their eyes, the daughter who marries out is the water that is spilled, and it has nothing to do with her mother's family, and on such an auspicious day as the New Year, the daughter should be with her parents-in-law, after all, her parents-in-law's home is the daughter's home. The main reason for this idea is that the daughter will start her own new family after marriage, and at the same time she will become the ruler of the new family. 
In this case, she must focus on her new family, and she can no longer scatter too much energy to her mother's family, if she puts her energy into her mother's family, it may cause a lot of right and wrong. In fact, such a concept has also been handed down from ancient times, because the ancient patriarchal thinking was serious. Men are the rulers of the family, while women are appendages of men, and they are subject to many constraints from an early age, and they need to obey their husbands after their parents get married. With the continuous development of society, the situation has improved, but there are still some places that are unwilling to take in married daughters on Chinese New Year's Eve.