A new way of celebrating the New Year is becoming popular, women are not aggrieved, men are not embarrassed, what is going on?
When I was a child, what people looked forward to the most was the Chinese New Year, because they could eat a lot of delicious food, wear new clothes, and have red envelopes from their elders. And now, more and more people are reluctant to celebrate the New Year, because the New Year will not only involve human exchanges, but also be bound by various etiquette customs, which is particularly depressing. In order to better solve this problem, there is now a new way to celebrate the New Year in society, and this method is also popular throughout the country.
1. Stay away from the feast of comparison.
Whenever the Chinese New Year comes, many people will participate in various parties, in fact, the New Year's party is understandable, after all, everyone is usually busy because of work, and only during the New Year will there be a little spare time. Get together with friends and family to talk about your life experiences and plans for the future. But many people find that today's gatherings are no longer just about reviewing feelings, and all kinds of comparison trends also make people feel afraid.
In fact, it is understandable that this situation occurs, in the adult world, money occupies a large weight. If adults don't talk about money and fame together, there's nothing to discuss. If you mix well, you are likely to be the brightest in the crowd when you attend the party, and you can get more connections and resources through the party. But if you're not doing well, you're likely to be marginalized at the party. In order not to add to the blockage of the New Year, we still have to stay away from this kind of comparison feast.
2. Let go of the weight of human affection.
During the Spring Festival, it is inevitable that the problem of sending red envelopes will be involved, if there are more relatives and friends at home, the red envelopes are a lot of expenses. For those who have already started a family, it is also necessary to take into account the round-trip expenses, the money for buying New Year's goods and honoring the elderly on both sides, which is enough to give ordinary families a headache. Because the vast majority of people are just ordinary people, and the money spent for a month during the Chinese New Year is basically their expenses for a few months.
Many people are desperately trying to save money, but by the end of the year they are still empty. In order not to let the New Year become a pressure, it is time for us to let go of the weight of human affection, try to omit the steps that can be omitted, and try not to spend the money that can be spent, after all, the essence of the New Year is to reunite with relatives, a family and a beautiful reunion, not to be generous for the sake of face. Therefore, even the mood gift needs to be moderate, and try to make a solution according to your own situation.
3. Leave time for your family.
Many friends have discovered that people are becoming more and more reluctant to go to their relatives, and they would rather lock themselves in their homes and not go out, rather than walk around with relatives and friends, even during the Chinese New Year. In their view, the Chinese New Year itself is a happy moment for family reunion, and the family should spend more time enjoying this kind of reunion, rather than leaving time to others, it is better to leave time to family!
Eating and chatting with your parents is a lifestyle that not only keeps your parents warm, but also reduces party and other expenses during the Chinese New Year. However, some people will ask friends to play cards or go out to play during the Chinese New Year, although this method is not impossible, but you must control the number of times.