When a person is at the bottom and successfully crosses the hierarchy, it is important to prevent the people at the bottom from pulling you back into the quagmire. Don't think that if you break through thousands of troops and reach the upper floors, you will have peace of mind, in fact, the danger is never far away. In the bottom circle at the beginning, everyone was very poor and stable, very happy, had nothing to do, watched**, played games, drank beer, and traveled poorly.
Later you find out that these are the cheapest pleasures, in fact, you don't dare to marry a daughter-in-law, you don't dare to have a girlfriend, you don't dare to travel, you don't dare to get sick, today you are affected by this person's **, tomorrow you are affected by that point of view, and you don't feel the slightest high-level pleasure. So you slowly want to "wake up", you want to go to a higher level, you want to make more money, you want a position with a high social status, but you find that once you start to act, all kinds of messy things will emerge around you and affect you. And if you want to get out of poverty, you need to stick to three words: anti-human.
Just be comfortable, get used to it, enjoy it, you don't just have to do it. Because poverty is a trap, a genetic trap that you fall into without knowing and never come out of.
It's so comfortable, it's so human, so many people don't realize that they don't know what they're doing.
For example, you made up your mind to write an article today, and then your friend sent you a game at this time, you watched it for a long time, and it was a good game, so you clicked to the homepage of ** and watched it for a long time, and an hour passed unconsciously after reading it.
When you want to write something about the title again, you want to prepare some actions, and suddenly you want to go to the toilet, drink saliva, eat something, and half an hour passes. When you make up your mind to really write, your girlfriends and buddies come to talk to you again, and you can't concentrate on writing and thinking, and then you find that two or three hours pass quickly, and then you are sleepy, thinking that it's time to take a shower and sleep, and you're tired today, and you have to work tomorrow. A lot of people are in this state. In such a forced state like you, you still want to succeed, it's just wishful thinking. So when you want to climb up, there are always many invisible hands pulling you down, pulling you down, and you have no choice but to give up everything else and bear this difficult time alone. If you bear it, you will be able to succeed, and if you can't bear it, you will definitely fail. Each person's level in this society is the result of the corresponding culture. If you really want to succeed, then keep an eye on your life goals, don't be disturbed by meaningless people or things around you, and especially don't get angry and meddle. Take responsibility for yourself first and live for yourself. This sentence can solve 70% of your life's troubles, and the remaining 30% can be solved with money. Remember, if you can't be highly self-disciplined, don't start a business, all entrepreneurs are highly self-disciplined. If you like comfort, go to work, and the most comfortable thing in the world is to go to work. I told my friend before, I said you play games, is it interesting to watch dramas? He said yes, I'm very happy, isn't it true that people live for a lifetime to make themselves happy! But I always feel that that's not real happiness, that's a false and low-level taste, that's the ** happiness set up by the people at the bottom, creating these so-called things that make you happy to stifle your desires, consuming your most precious time and energy, making you gradually lose the competitiveness of competing for high-quality resources, and lose the desire to enjoy a better life. Living in the rules set by others, this is not a life that you Brother Chuan and I recognize, I think whether it is me, or a group friend in VIP, or a loyal fan of my ***, I don't bother to care about other people, I shouldn't recognize this kind of life, it's just a sad life, just a long life. So if you want to succeed, you must be careful of the hands around you that pull you down. And the poor people around you will never teach you anything. If there is, then there is only one, and that is to stay away from the poor. Otherwise, their poverty, evil, poison, and anger will invade you in a 360-degree all-round way.
However, when you break through the hierarchy, you must be wary of the invasion of the people at the bottom.
The movie "Priceless Treasure" tells this plot, the heroine was sold by her relatives and second uncle when she was a child, and was later saved by the male number one played by Zhang Yi, Zhang Yi has always treated her like a daughter, when the heroine grew up, she danced and acted in movies and became a celebrity, and the second uncle of her relatives immediately came to the heroine to ask for benefits, otherwise she would ** private affairs and threaten to ruin her career. This is the most typical example, when you succeed, you will always encounter this kind of low-level people who disgust you, they are disgusting and pull you from below, let you share the benefits with them, otherwise they will try their best to destroy you. The drama is that when the second uncle of the relative came to ask for benefits, he happened to meet Zhang Yi first, Zhang Yi accidentally killed the second uncle of the relative, and later Zhang Yi surrendered, but because the heroine's career is on the rise, if there is negative news coming out (the adoptive father enters the prison cell), she will definitely be yellow, so she also chose to keep her mouth shut, and only after success did she see Zhang Yi again and call her father. And many people say that the rich are greedy, but in fact, the poor are the most greedy, especially those who don't know how to be grateful, they always feel that others help them for granted, and they can succeed casually without paying anything, just like winning the lottery, daydreaming. 
Finally, if you don't pay, you can't learn. Charging is not the only purpose, its core is to screen people who really want to learn, the Internet is bustling, saving each other's time, is the biggest etiquette. Respecting the achievements of others means respecting one's own contributions.
Why don't you want to give anything, but ask others to pay for you and serve you? No one is obliged to serve you unconditionally and learn to exchange values, so that you are suitable to survive in a circle. I often encounter some people add WeChat, a bunch of questions thrown over, a little later to reply to him is not happy, do not reply and feel that you are cold, reply to even the sentence "thank you" will not say. When it comes to paying for some content to learn, either you don't say anything, or you just feel that you have to cut his leeks, and you just want to prostitute yourself for nothing and think you deserve it. Don't feel like others owe you anything, learn to pay, and you can better get customers to pay for you!