Hello everyone, dear readers!I'm Yixin, and the theme of the article I'm sharing with you today is "Be sure to stay away from the bottom crowd, especially after you succeed".
Success is not the end, it's the beginning. However, when a person successfully crosses the social class and ushers in the pinnacle of his career, the biggest threat may come from the pull of the people at the bottom, and the influence of the bottom thinking after success. This article will provide an in-depth look at how successful people need to isolate the underlying downsides to ensure that the joy of success can be sustained and extended.
At the bottom, people may live an ordinary but stable life, but with them come all kinds of constraints and restrictions. From gaming, to drinking beer, and traveling on a budget, these once-enjoyable activities have become boring in the eyes of successful people. The desire to awaken, the desire to go higher, the desire for more wealth and higher social status is the pursuit of successful people.
However, when it comes to initial action, the bottom chores will haunt you all the time. When you make up your mind to write an article, a friend sends you a funny**, and you accidentally indulge in it, wasting a lot of time in vain. As much as you are determined to focus, you are often interrupted by trivial matters, causing time to pass in vain. This state of affairs is undoubtedly the biggest threat to those who succeed.
Successful people need to learn to isolate themselves from distractions around them, and may even need to forgo some social, recreational, and recreational activities. In order to be able to withstand this stressful time, they need to learn to face the situation alone. The endurance of this time directly determines the possibility of success.
A typical example is Bai Bing, a certain music Internet celebrity, who once said that he only took an afternoon off after working for two or three years, and even did not go out to play for a day during the New Year holiday. This kind of giving up short-term happiness in exchange for higher happiness is exactly the way of thinking that successful people should have. His success was hard-won, but it was also his own choice.
In the process of rising, successful people may encounter jealousy and negative influences from those at the bottom. Someone once said that after success, there must be an invisible hand trying to pull you into the water. This is manifested not only in the deliberate obstruction of some people, but also in the unfavorable Xi and ways of thinking that are established at the bottom. Successful people must be careful not to be pulled back into the bottom quagmire.
In the movie "Priceless" and the TV series "The Way of Heaven", there are such plots. Relatives and companions at the bottom have flocked to seek benefits after the rise of the successful ones, threatening to expose private privacy, and even malicious revenge. At this time, the successful person must stick to his principles and not be swayed by the people at the bottom. Just like the plot in the movie, the heroine successfully blocks the unfavorable attacks of the people at the bottom by firmly choosing to protect her good image.
After success, we also need to be wary of the erosion of underlying thinking. People at the bottom are dissatisfied with the success of the successful person, and they may try to destroy the career and reputation of the successful person through improper means. In the TV series "Tiandao", Liu Bing suffered a blow from the bottom thinking, which eventually led to the failure of his career. This also reminds successful people to stay sober at all times and not be affected by the underlying thinking after success.
On the road to success, we must remain vigilant, not only to prevent the bottom people from pulling, but also to resist the erosion of the bottom thinking. Successful people need to learn to give up some low-level happiness and pursue higher life satisfaction. Only in this way can we truly realize the values of successful people and move towards a more brilliant future.
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