Do not touch the opposite sexTwo forbidden areas
In life and in our careers, we all meet friends of the opposite sex, especially when we are both single, and we can easily and happily get along with each other. However, when we all have families, we need to be careful to maintain this pure friendship.
Someone once said that once a friend relationship crosses the line, it becomes a lover relationship, and this relationship is like a time bomb that can be ** at any time. For married men, no matter how good the relationship is with any woman, they cannot touch their "three forbidden areas".
1.Intimate physical contactIf the pure friendship of a married man and woman becomes abnormal, then it is usually because they have frequent physical contact and feel very ambiguous and close, like a couple in first love, lingering all day long.
However, what they may not know is that this pure affection is slowly turning sour because of this ambiguity and intimacy, and slowly turning into another kind of relationship: the lover relationship.
Married men should remember that friendship is precious, but it must be pure, if you cross this boundary, you will fall into the abyss, from friendship to lover is just a thought, from an inch to zero distance contact is only a matter of moments.
The happiness of two families depends on the attitude of two people, and a split second decision can make everything come to naught. There is a good saying: "If a married man wants to have a lasting and pure friendship between man and woman, he must lead by example and must not cross emotional boundaries, especially intimate physical contact." ”
It's like having a friend, he was originally just a good friend with a female colleague, but because he didn't know how to control and measure, he was always in close contact, and over time, emotions were generated, and the difference of one step became an abyss, and it was too late to regret it.
Although friendship is precious, if it becomes an ambiguous and intimate relationship, it should be discarded so as not to become a bad relationship.
Too much WeChat chat with married men and women can lead to unexpected emotional entanglements, which can eventually lead to a lose-lose situation. "Chatting is innocent, you can talk about trivial things in life, you can talk about work experience, but it is not appropriate to be tired of being together frequently, day and night, otherwise, that subtle feeling may evolve into deep love, and even cross the boundaries of friends.
There is an old saying that the building near the water gets the moon first, and it is this change of emotion. A married man should know how to talk to a woman, not to be overly contacted, not to chat late at night, and not to involve emotional topics.
In this way, the pure friendship can be maintained. There was once a married man who, because of an online encounter, started a frequent chat with a woman, and as a result, the relationship became deeper and deeper, which eventually led to the breakdown of the family.
This story teaches us to be cautious when chatting with someone who is married.
Love and friendship, like the two ends of the scale, need to be carefully grasped. Pure friendship is like the stars in the sky, bright and dazzling. Don't let affection change taste, don't let friendship become your stepping stone to the abyss.
Instead of wandering in the *** of women, it is better to find the most beautiful happiness in the three-inch distance of friendship. Watching the sunrise and sunset together, talking about life and career together, sharing the trivial things of life and the resentment in our hearts together, this is our most beautiful friendship.
However, the pure friendship of a married man and woman is one of the most difficult relationships in the world to maintain. Yixin Zen Master once said: "As long as the heart is upright, the love will not be crooked, the line will be right, and you will sit firmly." ”
Married men should put their family first, don't tease women*** Your flirtation, no matter how affectionate you are, will only let you step into the abyss and can't give others tomorrow.
Remember, friendship is a bridge that connects you to someone else's heart. Don't let it be your ladder to the abyss, but make it the most beautiful scenery in your life.