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A few days ago, I launched a call for submissions, asking you to describe your past year in one sentence.
Surprisingly, the word that appears most frequently is:Trance.
"Another year passed in a hurry, as if nothing had happened. ”
But when I asked if there was anything that happened this year that would make you remember it for years, everyone wrote a long list. Full of vivid and vivid details, with a strong sense of emotion.
Patrick went on a long trip. I took a leave of absence from the company on Thursday and was already on the streets of Paris on Sunday feeding pigeons;
An An decided to jump out of the social clock, quit her job and went to live as a volunteer in Dali, setting up stalls on the street to chat, and exchanging life stories with strangers;
Sunset Biscuit Proposed to in the snowy mountains, she said she will never forget the "marry me" that took 8 hours to slide out in the snow.
My biggest feeling after reading more than 2,000 submissions is:
The feeling of "getting nothing" all year round may just be an illusion of time.
It's because we are in a hurry, and we haven't had time to sort out the memories that have been stacked together, and mistakenly think that this year can be brushed aside.
And when we unfold our memories, we will find that life is bright, open, and "worth living".
Even those anxious questions that once bothered you were unconsciously answered.
I have seen 8 solutions to life problems from your stories over the past year, and I would like to share them with you.
This is certainly not the only answer.
There are as many answers to life as there are lives we are living.
[Written at the end].
People do not remember by time marking, but by memory to feel time.
We often say "the year of graduation", "the year of employment", "the year of marriage", ......The big and small things that happen in a year will become the scale of time marking after a few years, which constitutes the foundation of our life.
No year is spent in vain.
Every step we take shapes our past and shapes the outline of our future.
At the end of the year, it is the best time to salvage those memories of the past year that have been folded but are precious, expand and talk, relive the mood at that time, and find the answers to life.
I remembered a very favorite sentence I had read before, which was said by director Wang Yitong:
Those compressed memories, seemingly shriveled, once unfolded, reconnect with your breath, old feelings swell, and new thoughts grow. ”
Those memories of the "worthwhile" moments make our bags heavier and our lives heavier.
It is also these moments that make our steps lighter, and let new moments of happiness come slowly and grow freely.
Written by: Liuli.
Editor-in-charge: Liang Ke.
"Everyone has a year that they can't forget
With that memory, you can survive all the days
Treasure it in my heart for a long time. ”
- "That Year of Us".