Nowadays, most men are very resistant to giving money to women after marriage and letting women manage money, because there is no sense of security at all when they put money in women's hands.
So why did men in the past leave all their money to women?
In fact, letting women manage money is a practice that only began to emerge in the first two or three decades.
In feudal society, women had a low status and it was impossible to control the economic power of the family.
After the founding of the People's Republic of China, the social outlook was completely new, and men and women entered into marriage and formed families on an equal footing.
At this time, there were men who gave the money they earned to their daughters-in-law, let the daughter-in-law take care of it, and let the daughter-in-law plan the food and clothing of all family members, and carefully calculate every expenditure of the family.
Even if both husband and wife go to work, they don't earn much money, and if they don't make careful calculations, they can't maintain the food and clothing of the whole family every month.
And under limited economic conditions, planning the food and clothing of all family members, and it is best to have a little balance, is a very detailed matter, in this regard, women at that time did better than men, so they would let the money to their daughters-in-law, and the women's home attributes at that time were full.
So there was a prerequisite for letting women manage money at that time:
1. Both men and women can establish trust, enter into marriage, and form a family, and the goal of both parties is to live a good life at home.
2. At that time, women could not only ensure the food and clothing of all family members, but also make a monthly balance, which was better than men.
3. At that time, women were in charge of money in order to save money for their families and save money for emergencies.
So you know why you can't let the current woman control the family economy, right?
Because of the above prerequisites, women nowadays can't do it, such as:
1. Nowadays, it is very difficult for both men and women to establish trust, and even if they enter marriage, both parties are not necessarily of the same mind.
2. Today's women are keen to enjoy the moment, are keen on consumption, and are a mess about money planning and saving, or even have no saving habits, which has been too deeply poisoned by consumerism.
3. Today's women control the family economy in order to satisfy their selfish desires, to better control men, and to better enjoy consumption.
In the current environment, putting one's own money in the hands of women and letting women keep it is essentially a man taking the initiative to cede power to a woman, taking the initiative to let women restrain and control themselves, just like taking the initiative to put their own balls into the hands of others.
Then such a man will most likely not have the money to hire a lawyer when he gets divorced.
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