At the end of 2023, a ** of less than half a minute sparked heated discussions. Netizens have said: Every sentence is heart-wrenching!
*The content is the story of an old mother in Sichuan who complains about her child's poor grades. Perhaps she never thought that such an unintentional move would attract the attention of countless netizens. Many people even joked that if their daughter scored 2 points and was the last in the class, then she would have entered the "family law" long ago.
So why can she maintain such a mentality and even share it easily with netizens? Is it true, or is it just to drive traffic?
With the continuous progress of the development of the Internet, the popularity of the short ** platform has made many people see the wealth code in it. They made a lot of money relying on traffic, thus realizing their dream of wealth. So when some bizarre events appear on the Internet, the first reaction of netizens is to grab traffic.
The mother posted a video online about her complaining about her daughter's **. Netizens who haven't seen ** just think it's very eye-catching. After all, whose child scored 2 points in the test, they still advertise it everywhere. But when they saw **, they were all stunned and marveled at their mother's good temper and good attitude.
*, a young mother holds her daughter's test paper in her hand, and the scores on it stand out. The score of 2 points makes the mother who shoots ** feel incredible and funny. Netizens looked at this fourth-grade mid-term English test paper and were speechless.
After all, this score is already out of their blind zone. However, many netizens still comforted her, saying that many people can't learn English well. They are also worried about the child's mother making a mistake and go on to explain that many schools only start learning English in the third grade, so it is understandable that the test results are not good.
But behind the scenes, all netizens couldn't hold back. It turned out that this child not only scored 2 points in English, but also 8 points in Chinese. Such a "brilliant" record is beyond the reach of many people. If I could explain it in English, I would have nothing more to say.
Because I have been learning Chinese since I entered primary school, and after four years of study, I only got 8 points, which is a bit difficult for any parent to accept. Originally, everyone thought that this child was about to experience "stir-fried pork with bamboo shoots", but what no one expected was the mother's open-mindedness and mentality.
* Although the mother's words are a little harsh, the overall tone is relaxed and natural. The child sitting behind her was also concentrating on playing on his own, completely unaffected by the test results. Her condition surprised many netizens. After all, everyone was "home-educated" as a child.
At this time, netizens also understood that the mother just wanted to take a **, complain about her daughter to everyone, and give some advice. So someone asked if it was because the teacher didn't care about the child's grades. They ask the child's mother to send some gifts to the teacher so that the teacher can keep an eye on the child's performance.
Although it seems that it is not right to give gifts to teachers now, and most teachers will not accept gifts from parents in private, it is always the idea and attitude of parents. Perhaps someone had mentioned before that she was going to send the child's mother away, and when she mentioned it, she became excited.
The child's mother said that it was useless to give gifts, and there was not even a house. It is enough to show how well the child's mother knows the child. The mother then began to confess that her initial plans for her child's education were gradually crumbling and that she had lowered her requirements.
As a woman in the new era, the child's mother has the confidence to cultivate her daughter's talent. It is precisely because the current resources are completely different from before, as long as you are serious, you will always get ahead. When her daughter was in kindergarten, she had already set a goal of going to a prestigious school.
If you start training at a young age, you can go to a good school anyway. But her daughter's performance in recent years, as well as her grades in primary school, made her mother completely give up this idea. Just because the child's grades are too ugly, he is always at the bottom of the class. At first she thought about how to keep her children's grades, but after a few years she had a new idea.
Keep lowering. She doesn't want her child to be admitted to a famous university in China, but only wants to be admitted to an ordinary university. But later, her only hope was that her daughter would not harm society, and her inner expectations kept lowering. What happened to this mother?
Just because her daughter came home with her report card again and again, it made the old mother's heart ache. But even so, her attitude is still quite good, and she can even shoot ** to complain to netizens. From the child's mother's point of view, she just made a ** to record her life, but she didn't expect it to become popular.
Maybe she's never experienced such a large amount of traffic. The child's mother was immediately excited when she learned that her ** had gone viral, and this was clearly demonstrated in her subsequent **.
Many netizens expressed that they wanted to know more about this prodigy who scored 2 points in the exam, and the child's mother also began to record the child's learning at the request of netizens.
*, the child's father is helping his daughter with her homework. The child's mother walked up to her daughter with a confused face and said, "Now the whole country knows that you scored 8 points in the exam." Contrary to the mother's excited mood, the daughter's face was calm, and her eyes were full of indifference.
Immediately afterwards, the child's mother said to her daughter that she should work hard to score 9 points next time. The daughter agreed, and said that she could score 20 points. If it is in some families, a score of 9 and 20 will definitely make parents furious.
It has to be said that the mentality of the child's parents is not generally good and stable. While everyone was lamenting their mentality, the child's mother began to complain to netizens. No parent wants to see their child become a dragon. At first, the child's grades were not good, and she was also very anxious.
As a mother of a child, she knew that she would not be able to protect her child for the rest of her life, and a good future became especially important. As an ordinary family, the best way to change classes is undoubtedly to study. In her opinion, this is the easiest and most straightforward path, so she set her sights on a prestigious university.
If a child can graduate from these schools, her future social career will be more successful. After all, she'll have a good stepping stone. But her daughter's performance made her see no hope, and even made her a little desperate. She didn't expect her child's grades to be so poor.
But she always believes that her children are the best. Since learning wasn't enough, she began to nurture her child's other talents. She enrolled her children in many interest classes and found that the children not only had good talents in musical instruments and dance, but also learned to cook. **, the child's mother mentioned this, and her words couldn't help but be filled with pride.
Although many people lamented her good attitude, there were still a lot of unfriendly remarks in the comment area. Seeing these children, their mothers did not confront them. Because in her opinion, the child's grades are poor, but this fact cannot be changed. Since it's a bad thing, she's not afraid of others saying it.
When asked by netizens why she didn't use Family Law to help her child remember things better, she might improve her child's grades next time. Here's her response. The child's mother said that when she first saw her daughter's report card, there was an unknown fire in her heart that wanted to slap her.
But after the anger passed, she also understood that beating and scolding would not solve any problems, and it would most likely bring trouble to the child. Therefore, she never likes to beat and scold her children, but prefers to comfort and encourage them. Although the child's academic performance has not improved in recent years, the child's mother does not look down on it.
Perhaps, the content has aroused the sympathy of netizens, and many people have said that they have a headache in educating their children. Reading every article and every sentence, you can understand the changes in parents and the trend of education.
The so-called education.
There are many people who have the same experience as the woman in **. One mother was sympathetic to her experience because her own children had the same experience. She wrote in the comments section that her child only scored 28 points in the Chinese test. When the teacher laughed at the child's intellectual problems, she got angry on the spot.
There are many people who have the same experience as her, and there are even children who scored 0 points on exams. But their mood is quite calm now, saying that no matter how many points they score, their children are the best. This is completely different from stick education in people's minds.
Generations of parents have followed almost stick education. There is an old Chinese saying: "Filial piety comes from a stick". If a child is not a good listener, he will not be able to learn well. A few beatings will help his memory. Moreover, wolf education has gradually improved children's grades, and some have even been admitted to well-known universities.
But such an education will only bring depression to the child, and it may also cause trauma to the child. Perhaps the current generation that has experienced this kind of education has unanimously chosen to avoid scolding when educating the next generation. They opted for a more moderate form of education and became more stable in their minds.
And, as a parent who has gone through higher education, I also understand that not everyone is good at learning. In today's society, learning is not the only way out. By learning a trade, you can also survive well. And, as a parent, it's useless to be anxious. Just as the emperor is not in a hurry and the eunuch is in a hurry, the best thing to do is to calm down.
The reason for this situation stems from the current environment. With the progress of society and the demand for talents, the number of places in general high schools has been decreasing.
Therefore, many parents are very worried after seeing their children's grades. They worry about their children's future, that they can't read, that they can't study.
But even if it's an ant on a hot pan, there's no way to change it. This is the current state of society. If you want to read a good book, you have to have good grades. But not every child is good at reading, and not every child has the opportunity to read.
The survival pressure of society also makes parents understand that although the gap in education level exists, it does not represent everything for a person. With all kinds of self-enlightenment and comfort, the parents gradually calmed down. Just like the mother of the child mentioned above, even if the child scores points, she can still face it with a smile.
Measuring a child's worth by grades can be too one-sided. But this argument is bound to be refuted by some, who conclude that you should do what you have to do. As a student, a child's academic performance is not good and is destined to be bad. This is indeed understandable, but student life is only a small part of life.
Some people just aren't suited to learning too much theoretical knowledge and are more suited to practical hands-on work. Apparently society has also taken note of this when it comes to education. In recent years, vocational universities have sprung up and become the focus of construction. The operation of a society and a country also needs the support of various talents.
So, there are countless days in life, and reading is just one of them. Parents don't have to stick and curse their children when their grades are low, and they don't have to worry about it every day. More importantly, we should comfort and encourage the child, so that the child can feel the warmth of the family and give her the strength to work hard to grow.
In addition to caring, parents can also help their children open up new paths and expose them to new things and experience new things. Let them find a presence that interests them so they can find acceptance and confidence elsewhere. That's what education is called. Compared with how to become a talent, becoming a ** is the most important and difficult. A warm, right family is the first step.