Love is the most beautiful existence in everyone's heart, especially when they are young. On a green campus, if you can meet someone who makes your heart move, even if you can't make it all the way to the end, it's a beautiful relationship.
A boy brought his girlfriend home without telling his parents in advance. The parents were a little surprised at first, but seeing this girl so sunny and youthful, they suddenly changed from a little worried to full of joy.
The boy brings his girlfriend home.
Recently, when a boy in Zibo, Shandong Province, returned to his hometown, he only told his parents that he was going home soon, but did not say the purpose of his return. Even his parents didn't notice anything out of the ordinary, they just thought their son wanted to go home. Family.
But when the boy finally returned home, his parents were surprised because the boy did not come back alone, but with his girlfriend. The two men came in through the door, hand in hand. When the girl saw her parents from the south, she seemed very generous. Greetings to everyone.
When seeing this scene for the first time, the boy's mother immediately fell into a brainstorming session. She originally thought that she would introduce her son to a girlfriend when he graduated from college. Unexpectedly, she was only in the first year and had only been in college for half a year. I can just take a girl home.
The mother's attention fell on the girl, and she found that her smile was really beautiful, and she was very proper, both in words and in other behaviors. The mother immediately embraced this future. Daughter-in-law.
The mother also told her son that she blamed him for not telling her in advance, that she was not prepared and did not buy him gifts. But she can't let others think she's rude. Mom thinks this way because I like the girl in front of me so much.
Look at the ** of the two people, you will feel that they are really a good match. As a parent, although you may be reluctant to let your children get married, more importantly, you bless their two children and hope that they can have a happy marriage. Happy life.
Netizen support. This ** was posted on the Internet, and there are still many voices of support. After all, the mood of a freshman is almost the same as the mood of a student day. Everyone wants the love they encounter to last from the campus to the wedding dress. Target.
There is a movie called "The Year of Rush". The popularity of this drama has changed from the original book to a TV series and movie. Harvested the tears of countless people. The reason why so many people are moved by it is because it depicts a very sincere love in it.
In fact, there is no longer the so-called saying that you must contact the other party's family before getting married. After all, times go by quickly, and the old ideas no longer apply to today's children. 。
The old idea is that you have to wait until the end to see each other's family. The idea was actually mainly to show the reserve of women. It seems that only in this way can girls reflect their own value and make their in-laws value themselves more.
But modern people are increasingly aware of the importance of the family of origin. If you don't know much about the other person's upbringing and family background, then there is no way to ** the low-lying part of the other person's humanity, let alone know this. What is the fundamental logic of man?
So, seeing your parents is no longer such a scary thing. Just like when you're looking for a job, you need to visit companies you're interested in. You also need to consider each other's families. Only children who have lived in love since childhood, only the thoughts at the bottom will be sunny.
There is a good saying that a person's personality and his family style are actually the same. In the early stage of a relationship, if you can communicate and interact well with the other person's family, it will actually have a better impact on the emotions of two people. It also has a stimulating effect.
And in this period when the relationship has just begun, from the perspective of sunk costs, if there is a problem in the other party's family, whether it is the character of the other party's parents or the personality of relatives, then it is possible that the other party also has problems. It would be better to stop in time.
And if you and the other person's family are in an unacceptable situation from the beginning, don't think that you will change this conflict later by reconciling with your significant other. After all, for most people, it is difficult for Chinese men to be completely independent of their families.
Everyone should be responsible for their own lives. They must listen more, read more, and understand more so that their lives do not fall into passivity. All choices should be made on a voluntary basis. The reason why there are so many divorced people now is largely because there was a problem with the choice in the first place.
But in this process of communication with the other parent, it can also lead to the premature exposure of lifestyle habits, which can also become a point of conflict. For example, if you go to your future mother-in-law's house, the other party may think that you have made a table of things that girls like. After eating, the girls have to help wash the dishes.
But girls may feel that going to someone else's house is like a guest. Since they are not the owners of each other's houses, they should not interfere in any housework. At most, they can only help.
In fact, even if such a problem is hidden from the beginning, it is absolutely impossible to hide it for a lifetime. A saying that many people agree on is that marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families. This means that family conflicts will definitely manifest themselves in the relationship between husband and wife.
It's just that what most people think is not appropriate for what I'm talking about today is that the two of them are still too young after all. Maybe for them, going to someone else's house to play is like a kindergarten child. It's as simple as inviting a good friend to your home, but you don't realize what it means.
But either way, it's a process of honest communication. If both parties are very friendly when they first make contact, then it will definitely be good for the future of both people. After all, families also want their children to be happy.
And for the boy, his actions are also a manifestation of responsibility. He and the girl probably really liked each other, so they were willing to let go at the beginning of the years. The other person introduces his family.
The opposition is just as strong.
However, after all, not everyone has such a notion. More people may still hold the older notion that in the mother-in-law relationship, the daughter-in-law must be the weaker party, and it is best to avoid becoming a mother-in-law relationship. and each other's families. Avoid making the relationship harder.
Some people may also feel that if they are the parents of a girl, they will feel that they are only nineteen years old, which is too young. In any case, you should not go directly to the other person's house. This is equivalent to setting a future for yourself.
Some people may think that this fear stems from the fear that the girl will be deceived. For example, love is actually about taking responsibility and paying for your heartbeat, but marriage is different. Marriage has risen to another level. A kind of height.
After seeing this example, some parents decided to buy an RV in the future, accompany their daughter to college, and stay by her side every day to see which kid without vision will bully her. Many fathers have this mentality.
But from a psychological point of view, this has actually crossed the line. A lot of people think it's my own child, so there's no sense of boundaries. However, when the child grows up, he should become an independent person. Individuals should not be dependent on their parents.
Perhaps parents are becoming more and more assertive and want to control their children, which will make them more rebellious. There may be less of an element of love and more desire to confront parents. Feel.
There are also people who believe that the reaction and attitude of the boy's family towards the girl is actually not like this at the beginning, but it is only when the girl grows up and looks good, and her personality is good. If he married someone who was not so good-looking, how could this parent be like this?
In fact, this statement is a bit deliberately controversial. I want to lead this question to the question of appearance anxiety. After reading it, netizens must carefully discern what the main topic of this incident is. After all, everyone has their own interests. Eyes, everyone has their favorite type.
Conclusion. No matter what age you are, you must have the courage to face love and happiness, so that you can know how to seize opportunities when they encounter them. This is actually the most important point in a person's life, everything else is external. , only love remains.
But when faced with these emotions, it is important to remember that you must first love yourself, be yourself, and then examine your emotions. While you should show your sincerity, you should also know that your bottom line is in.