4 things that men love you more when women don't take the initiative.
1. Don't take the initiative, be humble and make others happy.
In order to please her boyfriend, Xiaofang desperately spent a lot of time and energy preparing gifts. Said she liked her boyfriend. Sometimes I stay up late and work overtime just to hear from my boyfriend. The result is the boyfriend's indifference and neglect. Xiaofang was very frustrated and disappointed. She felt that her efforts were not being rewarded. In fact, Xiaofang's humble flattery will not make your boyfriend love you more, but you should maintain an independent personality and constantly improve your value.
2. Don't take the initiative to control men's lives.
Some women love a man so much that they take control of his life. Wherever a person walks to **, he always tells him that he is **, what he is doing. Check your man's phone secretly by hitting or shooting.
Many women like to take control of a man's life in a relationship. However, this practice often makes men depressed and depressed. A smart woman will not take the initiative to control a man's life, but will give him enough freedom and space. Let the men do it. Men will appreciate you more and love you more because they like you and you do what you like.
3. Don't take the initiative to ask men to change themselves.
Some women say this just because they think that men will change for you. Him: Can you change your mind? Will it make me love you more or care more about me? This will help me love you even more. In fact, this approach tends to cause more conflict and make the man love you more instead of actively asking him to change.
Instead, you can take a gentler and more effective approach. For example, we can prepare a delicious dinner for him and share our feelings and thoughts with him while enjoying the meal. Not only does this make him feel that we have love and care for him, but the child can subconsciously influence his behavior and even give us praise and encouragement, which can also encourage the child to change his behavior. For example, we can recognize and praise him when we help him accomplish something at work or stick to it. This way, they will feel recognized and valued for their actions and will be more motivated to change their behavior. Behavior, behavior. Let men love us more. What we need is wisdom and skill to motivate people to change their behavior through praise and encouragement, rather than actively asking them to change themselves. This will not only make him feel our love and care, but it will also allow him to change himself more spontaneously.
4. Don't take the initiative and stick to men.
Xiao Ya and Xiao Li are a couple. Xiao Li is a busy person who often travels and works overtime. At first, Xiao Ya always called or sent messages to Xiao Li, asking about Xiao Li's whereabouts and situation, but Xiao Li was not happy about this, and in fact, Xiao Ya was too clingy, and I felt a lot of pressure. After that, Xiao Ya realized this problem and no longer contacted Xiao Li often to give him enough space. Xiaoya began to develop her interests and hobbies. I started exercising and reading more. In this way, Xiaoya became more confident, and her life became full and colorful. Xiao Li's love for Xiaoya is getting deeper and deeper, and the relationship between the two is getting better and better.
In life, many women become very aggressive and clingy in order to please their lover. She thought it would make men love her more, but in reality, this practice often made men feel stressed and bored. You have to understand that men are prey and women are traps. Men have a natural hunting instinct. Therefore, if the female is too aggressive towards the male, the male loses the hunting instinct. She will attract men with her charm and intelligence, and she will love you even more.