In this ever-changing world, love is like a fragile crystal that needs extreme care from both parties. However, when the storm of reality hits, the rift hidden behind the sweet vow is no longer visible. For Xiaoya, this storm came as a bit of an accident. Its name is "Trust".
Xiaoya and her boyfriend Ah Ming have been in love for three years, and their relationship has always been very good. At least that's what Xiaoya thinks. Together, they plan their future, dream of their own wedding, and even choose a wedding dress together. However, on a seemingly ordinary night, Xiaoya's world collapsed because of a sentence.
On that day, Xiaoya proposed that since the two were ready to get married, they could combine their salaries and take care of the family finances together. She believes that this is a responsibility to their future marriage and a sign of mutual trust. However, the amine reaction was unexpected. Not only did he refuse, but he also became furious, asking why he was giving someone else the wages he earned.
Xiao Ya was stunned, and an inexplicable panic surged in her heart. She began to wonder if their long-standing relationship was built on the sand of fantasy. She wants equality, respect, and trust, not to rule or be ruled. Amin's attitude made her feel more isolated and helpless than ever.
This night, Xiaoya didn't sleep well. She lay on the bed, looking at the ceiling, her mind in turmoil. She remembered all the time she had spent with Amin, but those happy times seemed so pale and powerless now. She began to wonder if this man and the relationship were really worth trusting for a lifetime.
A few days later, Xiaoya decided to discuss it in detail with Ah Ming. She needs to know the real reason for his refusal to pay her salary. Is it because you don't trust her? Or is it because he has other plans? Or is he simply not ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage?
Faced with Xiao Ya's question, Ah was obviously a little confused. He explained that he was just used to independent financial management, not that he didn't trust Xiaoya. But the instability in his words and the flickering in his eyes made Xiaoya's mood even heavier.
Xiaoya realizes that this is not only a matter of money, but also a conflict of their values and lifestyle. She began to wonder how much conflict her future marriage would have. Can she accept a life partner from someone she doesn't want to share in financial power?
Trust and autonomy are two important factors in balancing love. Xiaoya knows that if she can't balance the two, her and Amin's future will be full of uncertainty. She didn't want her marriage to be based on inequality and suspicion.
In the end, Xiaoya made a decision. She chose to leave a relationship that left her anxious and confused. She believes that true love should be based on mutual respect and trust. And she deserves such love.
The moment Xiaoya fell, it was painful, but she could clearly understand her needs and bottom line. She knows she still has a long way to go, but she's willing to wait for someone to accompany her. On the road of love, she will not forget herself in order to fit in with others, she seeks a partner who can talk to and grow together on an equal footing.
Love is not the whole of life, but it is the most beautiful part of life. Xiaoya believes that as long as she adheres to her principles and pursuits, she will one day find the right person and spend spring, summer, autumn and winter together.