The road is long, and no one can experience the ups and downs of life.
When the storm hits, we all hope that someone can hold up a big umbrella for us and take the opportunity to shelter from the wind and rain.
But no matter how big other people's umbrella is, they may not have your protection; No matter how wide the eaves of others are, there may not be a place for you.
In this long life, no one is forever relied on; Learning to give yourself an umbrella is a person's greatest sense of security. People are at a low point, don't rub other people's umbrellas, I hope you can understand these truths
When you fall, no one will lift you up.
In a person's life, not everything goes smoothly, there will always be difficulties and setbacks.
* Relationship, as the saying goes: "The wind is full of friends, and there is no one in time and space at the trough of life." ”
When you are pretty, many people will hold you in the clouds; But when you're frustrated, don't expect someone to pick you up.
When you are humble, don't expect too much from others, or you will be disappointed even more.
Because people's hearts are realistic, this is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
In the face of difficulties, no matter what kind of setbacks we encounter, only by finding the strength in our hearts can we better move bravely towards our goals.
So, never expect others to support you.
In the stormy life, only those who are umbrellas are not afraid of getting wet.
Relying on others is a disaster.
Don't put your hopes in anyone else in anything, be it relationships or work, otherwise the only result is unpreparedness.
Life is a thorn of thorns, and it is easy to get lost by grabbing the corners of others and slowly groping around.
Always shelter from the rain under someone else's umbrella, and you will get wet yourself.
People who are always hiding under the protection of others can only be subject to others everywhere and become vassals of others.
Relying on others for everything is tantamount to brewing an unknown disaster for yourself, and when setbacks come, you find that you have lost the ability to spread your wings and fly.
Only those who live on their own can be their own haven and refuge.
Remember at all times:
The noblest person in life is not someone else, but even if you are stuck in a quagmire, you do not forget to struggle for yourself.
No matter how big someone else's eaves are, they are not as good as their own umbrellas.
Life is hard, and no one will always pay for you.
When you reach a certain age, you will understand that life is always smooth sailing without one, and every family has its own difficult experiences.
Everyone has their own troubles, and the help that others can give is actually a drop in the bucket.
At any given time, the only person who can really pull you out of the abyss is yourself.
As long as you put your time and energy into your hard work, one day, the life you want will appear in front of you.
When you have your own umbrella, you have the ability to protect yourself from the storm whenever it hits.
Instead of pinning your hopes on others, it is better to be strong yourself.
When you are strong enough not to rely on others to live, you can walk with an umbrella even if the wind is strong and the rain is heavy.
In these trying times, those who seek help will be looked down upon and despised at every turn.
There are thousands of postures in the world, joys and sorrows, ups and downs, in addition to crossing, others can't help it.
You never know, but with an umbrella in your hand and a light in your heart, you can get out of the haze and see the rainbow.