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Every year during the Spring Festival, it is a traditional way to give red envelopes to children. However, as families get bigger and the number of children increases, so does the issue of return gifts. A family in Hangzhou recently faced this dilemma: their son received a 1,000 yuan red envelope, and their relatives have four children, how should they return the gift? This question has sparked heated discussions among netizens, and various methods and opinions have emerged. This article will focus on this issue and provide some suggestions for returning the favor.
1. The average amount of return gifts
Some netizens suggested that the gift should be returned according to the average amount, believing that 250 yuan per person is a more fair way to distribute. However, this suggestion has been questioned by some netizens, who believe that this figure is not atmospheric enough and does not conform to the tradition of giving red envelopes during the Chinese New Year. In order to avoid this embarrassment, it was proposed to give different amounts according to different ages, such as 400 yuan for the eldest child, 300 yuan for the second child, 200 yuan for the third child, and 100 yuan for the fourth child. This not only makes the distribution reasonable, but also highlights the superiority between siblings.
2. Some red envelopes are gifts in return
Another way to get a gift in return is to spend part of the amount on red envelopes, and the rest of the amount to buy some small gifts as a return gift. Some netizens think that a red envelope of 200 yuan plus a gift is more appropriate, which not only satisfies the principle of courtesy, but also does not cause too much financial pressure on themselves.
3. Return the gift in accordance with the number of courtesies
Some netizens suggested returning the gift according to a certain number of gifts, thinking that each person should be wrapped with a red envelope of 300 yuan or 500 yuan. In this way, you can not only express your heart, but also conform to the traditional etiquette exchange. However, some netizens think that this way of returning the gift pays too much attention to the amount of the gift money and ignores the importance of family affection. They believe that relationships should be based on feelings, not just money, so they don't have to worry too much.
4. Returns in line with personal financial ability
In the suggestions of netizens, some people also choose to return the gift according to their own financial ability. For some families with better economic conditions, it is not a problem to give 1,000 yuan in red envelopes for each child. However, this type of return is not for everyone, as it is unrealistic for some families to bear such financial pressures. Therefore, when returning the gift, you should make reasonable arrangements according to your own economic situation.
5. Give less red envelopes and more auspiciousness
There are also some netizens who propose a very concise way to return the gift, and they suggest a small amount of red envelopes only, such as 10 yuan. This kind of return gift is auspicious, which will not cause a financial burden to each other, but also convey one's own heart. Of course, this method requires greeting friends or relatives beforehand so as not to cause embarrassment to the other person.
As a part of the traditional New Year's customs, the original intention of the New Year's money is to convey the good wishes of the elders to the younger generations. However, with the changes in society and the change of concepts, the meaning and amount of New Year's money have gradually changed, and it has become a comparison tool and a psychological burden. A recent survey shows that some young people are distressed and anxious about the amount of New Year's money, and even feel that the amount of money is getting more and more outrageous. They sighed: "I can't take it if I have less, and my heart aches when I have more", "The New Year's money has caught up with my monthly salary". Especially for those who have a lot of relatives and children in the family, the amount and amount of New Year's money often makes them feel stressed. How should we deal with such a situation?
In the face of the pressure and anxiety brought about by the New Year's money, we should re-examine this issue and return to the original intention of the New Year's money. New Year's money is originally a way to convey blessings and love, and it is the sustenance of the elders to the younger generation's physical health, academic progress and good luck. Therefore, while giving New Year's money, we should pay attention to the transmission of emotions, not just the exchange of money. Whether it is a red envelope or a return gift, we should pay attention to the cultivation of family affection and friendship to create a harmonious and harmonious family atmosphere.
At the same time, we should also return the favor according to our own financial strength to avoid financial burden on ourselves and others. Everyone's financial situation is different, and there is no need to compare. For those who find it difficult to bear greater financial pressure, they can choose some substantial small gifts or ways to express gratitude in return, which can not only meet the principle of reciprocal gifts, but also reduce financial pressure.
In short, New Year's money should be a tool to convey emotions and blessings, rather than a source of comparison and pressure. Whether we give or receive New Year's money, we should make reasonable arrangements according to our own circumstances and values. By properly understanding and using the New Year's money, we can make this traditional activity more meaningful and truly reflect the importance of family and friendship.
Through discussion and analysis, we can conclude that when faced with the problem of returning gifts, we should make reasonable arrangements according to our own financial ability and relationship with relatives. The distribution of New Year's money should focus on the transmission of emotions, not just the exchange of money. At the same time, we should also return to the original meaning of New Year's money, convey love and blessings, and create a harmonious family atmosphere. Through such efforts, we can make New Year's money no longer a source of stress, but a beautiful traditional custom, a bond of family and friendship.
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