Red Net Moment News reporter Wang Rong reported from Changsha
The "older" younger brother with an IQ of only 2 years old, the father-in-law who is paralyzed in bed and cannot take care of himself, and the husband who was seriously injured after the car accident ......Such a "disaster" family was held up by a woman who was only 1.5 meters tall, and she was like a day for ten or twenty years, without complaint or regret.
Repay pain with love
When Tian Wen was four years old, he remarried with his mother to Hayada Village, Jiaoxi Town, Liuyang City. After just 4 years in this world, I lost the warmth of "home". Her stepfather regarded her as a "drag oil bottle", and her mother was even more indifferent to her after giving birth to her younger brother, and the new "family" seemed to cast a haze over Tian Wen's life.
In 1961, Tian Wen's 2-year-old younger brother Tian Dingzhen suffered from a high fever due to illness and impaired intelligence, and his mind stayed at the age of 2 since then. Since his stepfather and mother had to go out to work, 9-year-old Tian Wen took on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother alone.
Moss flowers are as small as rice, and they also learn to bloom peonies. Perhaps because he didn't experience the warmth of the family since he was a child, Tian Wen poured all his attention and love into his younger brother, and his small shoulders grew into a person who could be relied on, and the sense of accomplishment of taking care of his younger brother made Tian Wen feel deeply satisfied.
Tian Wen did not want to be a burden on his family, and at the age of thirteen, he wanted to learn a "craft" that could support him. She got up early and studied tailoring, and soon she was able to earn money to support her family.
Just as Tian Wen formed a new family and life seemed to continue happily, the news of her mother's death and her stepfather's serious illness gave her another blow to the head.
What about my 2-year-old brother? All kinds of problems lingered in Tian Wen's heart.
But when she saw her stepfather's sad eyes in front of the sickbed, she made up her mind: take her younger brother over and take good care of her. Her mother's neglect and her father's beating and scolding were left behind by her, and Tian Wen chose to reconcile with the "pain" given by her parents: "My younger brother is innocent. ”
Since then, Tian Wen's life has become more busy, tying bibs, feeding, wiping his mouth, picking up rice, brushing his teeth, washing his face and bathing, changing his wet clothes and pants, ......It takes a lot of effort to take care of this "big baby".
In the eyes of others, his younger brother is like a "drag oil bottle", but Tian Wen doesn't think so. After 24 years of care, she was willing, and her "love" for her younger brother also infected her daughter.
Every time I go home, I bring food for my uncle. Tian Wen's daughter Xiao Min is a primary school teacher, and her mother's actions for many years have always moved her.
My uncle would sometimes walk outside and wouldn't listen to anyone, but whenever he heard my mother call him, he would run to her like a child. Xiao Min said.
Tian Wen used a pair of hands to protect his younger brother's "childlike innocence" in his arms, and opened up a clear blue sky for his "2-year-old" younger brother.
Fight against fate with "perseverance".
In Tian Wen's impression, fate has always been cruel. Since her mother remarried, her life seems to have opened a "super difficult" mode.
In 2012, Tian Wen's father-in-law, who has always been strong, fell and injured himself, and since then he can only be accompanied by a wheelchair. Tian Wen has one more burden on his shoulders. But with the experience of taking care of his younger brother, Tian Wen is also handy in taking care of his father-in-law.
Serving tea and feeding, bathing and laundry, Tian Wen took care of his father-in-law like a daughter, but the heavy housework and long-term fatigue made Tian Wen's body issue a "warning".
However, fate did not favor him. In 2015, a sudden car accident almost took Tian Wen's husband away, but even if he "picked up" a life, the best case for her husband was only "half-paralyzed".
The torture of illness and the great changes in his life made Tian Wen's husband's temperament change greatly, but Tian Wen silently took on the burden of "taking care of the family" in such a change. It is not easy to take care of three patients at the same time, Tian Wen cannot stop for a moment, and he is busy until he is exhausted every day.
After many blows, Tian Wen proved with perseverance that she would not abandon or give up. Perhaps seeing her perseverance, the storm of fate finally stopped. Now, under Tian Wen's careful care, Tian Wen's father-in-law has safely finished his life, and her husband has basically recovered his health, breaking the doctor's prophecy that "the best recovery is also half-paralyzed"; The younger brother is also stronger than before, and can help with many simple household chores; The children also have successful careers and have happy families.
Recalling the past, Tian Wen seemed very bland. She has never complained about anything, and she has never forgotten to help others in times of disaster, often volunteering to help other people in need.
Come with a heart, and don't take half a straw with you. Tian Wen's optimistic attitude towards life infected almost everyone around him, and the tribulations of life finally gave birth to a pearl.