In marriage, does talking about money really hurt feelings? Everyone has their own opinion and experience on this issue. As a social journalist, I have observed many marriage cases in depth and found an interesting phenomenon: couples who dare to talk openly about money in marriage are often better able to deal with conflicts and problems, so as to make the relationship more stable.
In the traditional view, talking about money is often regarded as an unlucky practice, and some people even think that "talking about money hurts feelings". However, with the development of society and the change of people's concepts, more and more couples have begun to face up to the status of money in marriage. They believe that money is a part of life, and that talking openly about money in marriage is an important foundation for a healthy, stable relationship.
One of the couples I interviewed talked to about money openly from the time they were in love until they got married. They believe that talking about money in marriage not only does not hurt feelings, but can actually enhance mutual trust and understanding. Through communication, they can better plan their family's finances and avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes. At the same time, they are also able to better understand each other's values and consumption concepts, so that they can get along more harmoniously.
Of course, talking openly about money is not an easy thing to do. Sometimes, we may choose to avoid talking about it because we are embarrassed or afraid of causing an argument. However, this practice often lays a hidden danger for the marital relationship. When problems accumulate to a certain extent, greater contradictions and conflicts tend to erupt.
In order to avoid this from happening, couples should establish a good communication mechanism with each other. Together, they can create a family financial plan that clarifies each other's expectations and responsibilities. At the same time, they should also respect each other's opinions and opinions, and learn to listen and understand each other's ideas. Only in this way can they talk better about money in their marriage, which will make the relationship stronger.
In summarizing my observations and interviews, I found that couples who dare to talk openly about money in their marriages tend to be better able to cope with life's challenges and problems. They build a deeper trust and understanding through communication, which leads to a healthier and more stable marriage. Therefore, I believe that talking about money in marriage does not hurt feelings, but rather a sign of maturity and responsibility. As members of society, we should actively change our mindset and face up to the role of money in marriage. Only in this way can we build a healthier and more stable marriage.