Have you ever tried to send a message to someone else, but you can't wait for a reply, so that you get nervous as soon as your phone rings, for fear that you are "ignored"?
What I want to say is: don't wait, in the adult world, there is a kind of decent rejection called "no reply".
Have you ever noticed, I don't know when it started"Not replying" has become a habitual reaction of many people to the invitation
When you warmly invite friends to dinner, go shopping, or attend an event together, the other party always prevaricates you with excuses such as "see it later", "let's talk about it", "talk about it again", etc.
At first, you really thought that the other party was free, but when you really waited until that day, the other party still didn't reply to you, you called ** to ask, but the other party told you: "Ah, I'm so sorry, I've made an appointment with someone else", "Ah, I forgot".
That's when you'll understandIt turns out that "not replying" does not mean acquiescence, but rejection. It's just that this way is more likely to make you feel like you're out of the way than just saying "no".
When you send a message to someone you like and you don't get a reply, don't think that the person is busy and doesn't have time to reply to you. Sometimes the other person has already seen your message and just doesn't want to talk to you.
Instead of directly telling you "I don't like you", chooseNot replying is actually a kind of silent **
When you send a message to someone you haven't been in touch with for a long time, and the other party doesn't reply to you, it may not be because the other party hates you, but because the other party feels that there are not many common topics and intersections between you anymore, and the other party doesn't know how to start the topic.
At this time, "not replying" is a kind of respect that the other party has for you, itUnnecessary embarrassment and conflict are avoided
When you give too much personal information to someone you don't know well, and the other person doesn't get back to you, it may not be because the other person doesn't care about you, but because the other person feels that your relationship is not yet to the point where you can trust each other.
Appropriate use of "no reply" is the most decent way for adults to deal with it, it can help us save worry and effort, and at the same time avoid unnecessary social exertion.