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A woman's destiny has changed from her in-law's family and husband to her mother's family and herself, and she has gone through a long and tortuous road.
We have gone from complaining about the heavens and the earth to our own self-inflicted self-inflicted crimes, and we have taken most of our fate into our own hands.
Therefore, the luck and misfortune of a woman's fate come from some of their own characteristics.
Once some characteristics are ingrained in them, it is difficult to change, resulting in a lot of sadness for the rest of their lives.
01: Disturb yourself for something that didn't happen
If a woman worries about something that hasn't happened yet, it's a sign of bad luck.
On the surface, this person seems to be far-sighted, but in fact, she has not found the signs and development of any things, but she is just suspicious and asking for trouble, and it is a manifestation of lack of ability.
This trait can make people worry too much about what might happen in the future and ignore the happiness and opportunities of the present moment.
These anxieties and worries lead to the inability of them to enjoy life, to miss many opportunities, to focus on the present, and to neglect the present that is quietly being lost, so that they are trapped in a cycle of self-blame and doubt, and they are never able to adapt themselves.
They are often unable to extricate themselves from self-evidence, and they are always in turmoil and feathers.
This vicious circle is to set up obstacles for oneself and expose oneself to more troubles and difficulties for no reason.
02: For things that are in the pastLingering
If a woman is obsessed with the past, it is also a sign of bad fate.
On the surface, this person seems to be very nostalgic, but in fact, she does not cherish the present, nor does she rationally look forward to the future.
This trait can make people unable to let go of the mistakes and hurts that have passed, and to accept and let go of the not-so-good experience.
Dwelling on the emotions of the past is bound to hinder a person from moving forward and not being able to truly enjoy the happiness of the present.
She will lose self-confidence because of past failures, and will not be able to accept new opportunities and challenges calmly, resulting in a feeling of sadness and hopelessness for the rest of her life.
In fact, everything in the past is an example of our growth and accumulation.
As someone said, for better or worse, the past is our gain; No matter how big or small, there will always be opportunities for us in the future.
Indulging in those mistakes and pains, so that you can never heal, how can fate favor such a stupid woman!
03: Trying to do things that you can't grasp
A woman who tries her best to deceive herself about something she can't grasp is a sign of bad fate.
On the surface, this person seems to be motivated, but in reality, she doesn't really know herself, but blindly pursues what is not supposed to be her.
This trait can lead to a person getting lost, pursuing too much of what they can't control, being unable to accept reality and adapt to change.
This kind of stubbornness and persistence will lead a person to still hold on to the irreparable situation, delusional that things will still turn around, and thus miss the real opportunity.
They may be unable to accept their own shortcomings because they are too perfectionist, resulting in low self-esteem and decadence, or even going astray.
Although not admitting defeat is a kind of firmness and faith, we also need to learn to accept the reality and stop losses in time.
People who don't hit the south wall and don't look back won't achieve much, and those who survive the fittest will become winners in life.
It is true that a woman's traits suggest that they may face some difficulties and setbacks, but that does not mean that they are incapacitated.
The key is how to put a mindset of worrying about the future, how to accept and let go of past experiences, and how to adapt to change and change your mindset.
Only with a positive attitude and down-to-earth behavior can we see the possibility of happiness and success on the road of destiny.
Destiny is in our own hands, and it depends on our own wisdom and choices.
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