In February, a netizen asked: "My boss has been very annoying recently, and suddenly put forward more detailed and strict requirements for my work, which is strict to every detail and every point." Then take the ** and give it to another employee to study and explain. Looks like I want him to replace me. In this case, if you don't quit your job and want to make a mess, what should you do? ”
I said to him: According to your description, the following three types of information can be captured:
1.Your boss is very unauthentic, he has never asked you to do this before, but recently he suddenly came out like this, and let another employee learn, "If something goes wrong, there must be a demon", if you are not wrong, this is a prelude to opening up to you!
2.Your heart is very unhappy, obviously you have been responsible for something, but suddenly your leader "grafted" and obviously transferred to others, you will face a situation of having nothing to do and being marginalized!
3.Your company is very smart, he didn't fire you immediately, but used the method of "boiling frogs in warm water" to cook you, slowly boiling you useless, forcing you to jump out of this hot water pot!
You can imagine how embarrassing your situation will be, and how sad it will be!
What to do? From your description, you know that your thoughts are that you don't want to quit, you want to live, and you want to make a living! May I?
OK! I don't want to quit if I don't want to quit together, and I can't help it:
In a nutshell, it is to rapidly improve its high temperature resistance.
Will warm water turn into hot water? See if your boss will add firewood to the bottom of the pot, if you don't add it, in your current mood, you can also deal with it, it's just a little uncomfortable, it's uncomfortable, it's uncomfortable, just pay it!
When the boss adds firewood, the warm water will immediately turn into hot water, and at this time, you have to hone your high temperature resistance!
How to practice:
Master some of the core technologies that only you know, keep them, usually, don't show them, don't teach them at will, when it's critical, even if you want to use these core technologies, please cover them up, don't let people learn them. That's your eating skill!
When you are irreplaceable, you are the master!
After practicing the incorruptible body of King Kong, with the virtue of your boss, you will encounter more and worse situations, such as backstabbing, slander, marginalization, harsh criticism, salary cuts, verbal abuse, etc.!
What to do? Practicing to strengthen your heart, it is like covering a vajra cover, no matter if you have ten thousand arrows to shoot, I will not move.
To survive, you have to pay attention to the method!
Will the donkey company quit you? Not yet, but don't hang yourself from a tree while you're staying, you'll have to find another way out!
If you have time, pay more attention to companies with better treatment, better positions, and better humanistic atmosphere.
I found it, submitted a letter of resignation, "I waved my sleeves and didn't take away a cloud", said goodbye in a chic way, and withdrew!
Of course, you feel that instead of being boiled in warm water, you should jump away now!
Okay, just jump, there is no right or wrong choice, it's just that you have to be prepared to find mosquitoes to eat during the window period, after all, the outside environment is not good, ......