As the time entered the cold winter, many rural areas suddenly found that there were more white things. In fact, every year when winter comes, many elderly people can't get through. For people, the cold winter moon means family reunion, but there are always these things that do not want to happen. In addition, when the Chinese New Year is approaching, it is also a concentrated period of going to the grave to worship the ancestors. However, there is such a saying among the people that "five people should not go to the grave", which five people are referred to here? Let's take a look.
The Spring Festival is approaching, "five people don't want to go to the grave", which five people do you refer to? See early, know early
1. The sick do not go to the grave. Recently, it is estimated that many people have found that the old and young in the family either have a cough or a fever. After winter, it is easy to have all kinds of wind chills and colds. At this time, the sick person must recuperate to avoid serious illness.
At this time, even if the family organizes to go to the grave of the ancestors, the sick do not need to go to the grave. Because in the countryside, most of the cemeteries are in the mountains, and the wind is strong and cold, which can easily lead to serious illness.
2. Pregnant women should not go to the grave. Actually, it's more from a security point of view. Because for pregnant women, whether it is the first trimester or the next trimester, it is a very critical time. At this time, it is necessary to recuperate, and it is not advisable to run around and be tired.
In addition, in Feng Shui, tombs are places where the yin qi is heavier. For pregnant women, it is natural to stay away from these bad places.
3. The elderly should not go to the grave. At the end of the year, many elderly people began to go up the mountain alone to worship their ancestors and clean up the surrounding areas of the tomb for future generations. However, for some elderly people, it is not necessary to go to the grave.
In rural areas, the location of most graves is relatively difficult to walk. It is also very dangerous for the elderly to climb over mountains or walk on potholed paths. Even if young people are not paying attention, they will fall. For the elderly, a fall is a very scary thing.
At the same time, as I get older, my resistance is much smaller. In the cold winter, the cold wind is biting, which is very easy to induce the underlying diseases of the elderly, resulting in the elderly being bedridden. Therefore, at this time, the elderly are not allowed to go to the grave.
Fourth, the son-in-law should not go to the grave. Speaking of which, many people probably don't understand. In fact, few people abide by this statement. Because people's thinking and concepts have changed greatly. In the past, people didn't think of their daughters-in-law and sons-in-law as their own family, but now they don't.
In the past, the son-in-law was an outsider, so he was not qualified to participate in the worship of the ancestors. If the son-in-law of any family goes to worship the ancestors, he will be laughed at by the people of other families. That's why there is a saying that sons-in-law are not allowed to go to the grave.
Children up to the age of five or three do not go to graves. When it comes to children going to graves, many adults now don't let their children go to the graveyard. In the eyes of many adults, they think that the cemetery is a place with heavy yin energy, which will affect children.
In fact, another reason why children are not allowed to go to the grave is that the atmosphere of the grave is relatively heavy. Many people feel that such an atmosphere will scare children, so they don't want to be exposed to these things too young.
In short, the above five types of people do not go to the grave, which is often talked about by many family elders. In this view, there is still some truth. What do you think?