In the process of human growth, each stage has its own special meaning and importance. In the critical period of middle and high school, the construction of human dignity is particularly crucial. During this period, children are in the transition stage from dependence to independence, and they begin to form their own worldview, outlook on life, and values. At this stage, if they can get the respect and support of their parents, their personality will develop healthily; Conversely, if they are suppressed and trampled on, their personality may be seriously damaged.
Imagine a middle and high school child, who comes home every day, is greeted not by the care and encouragement of his parents, but by endless accusations and criticism. His thoughts and feelings were ignored, his efforts and achievements were belittled, and his personality was trampled on. Such an environment will undoubtedly bring great harm to his heart.
When they grow up, these children may face problems with kernel instability. They have a low sense of self-worth and lack self-confidence and security. They don't know where their worth lies, they don't know how to stand in society. They may become anxious, nervous, overly sensitive to small things, and easily susceptible to external stimuli and lose control.
This instability of the kernel further leads to emotional instability. They may become anxious and unable to cope calmly because of a small matter. When stimulated by something that doesn't go well, they may immediately become depressed, negative, or even angry. Such an emotional state not only affects their own quality of life, but may also cause distress and harm to those around them.
Why, then, is it so important to build human dignity in middle and high school? This is because this period is a critical period for children's psychological development. They begin to develop a sense of self and begin to think and judge independently. They are very sensitive to external evaluations and feedback, especially from their parents. If parents are able to give them enough respect and support, their sense of self-worth will be boosted, and they will be more confident, independent, and stable.
On the contrary, if parents suppress and trample on the personal dignity of their children during this period, then children may have doubts about their own worth, and they may become inferior, cowardly, and dependent. Their inner world can become fragile and unstable, susceptible to outside influences and harm.
Therefore, as parents, we should be aware of the importance of middle and high school in building children's human dignity. We should respect our children's thoughts and feelings, and give them enough support and encouragement. We should help them build healthy self-values, let them know what they are worth, and give them the confidence and courage to face the challenges and difficulties in life.
At the same time, we should also pay attention to those children who may be repressed and abused. We should give them more care and support to help them rebuild their self-worth and confidence. We should let them know that they are not alone and that they have someone who cares and supports them. Only in this way can we help them get out of their inner predicament and move towards a healthier and more stable life path.