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With the final grades coming out one after another across the country, parents are eager to know how their children are doing in their classes. Especially in the class group, parents have posted their children's results, which has caused great controversy and discussion.
Peggy's mother was the first to express her doubts: "Teacher, is the grade wrong?" Why is the test so bad? Is the language out of the curriculum this time? She was very unhappy with her child's results and felt that the content of the language test was beyond the usual curriculum. She also mentioned that her children usually attend training classes, so they are more looking forward to the results.
Jiayi's mother used her child's grades as an example to show her opinion of Peggy's mother. She said: "My Jiayi's results are about the same as usual! And attached is the child's report card, language 865, Mathematics 935, English 96. Jiayi's mother is satisfied with her child's grades and thinks that it is in line with her usual performance.
However, Junhao's mother also posted her child's report card, and the results were even more eye-catching. Junhao, a member of the study committee, has a very high score in Chinese, which has aroused the envy and praise of other parents. Not to be outdone, Zihan's mother, the representative of the Chinese class, also posted her child's results, and the results were close to Junhao. The mother of the class leader, Xiaoxuan, posted the child's full score in mathematics, which was praised by everyone.
These parents competed with each other in class groups to show off their children's grades, which sparked a lot of discussion and praise. However, the class teacher sensed the seriousness of the problem and urgently closed the grade inquiry channel and forbade the discussion of the grades in the class group. This has left parents stunned, and it has also made people wonder why parents like to show off their children's grades so much and ignore the feelings of other children.
There is no doubt about the importance of children's final grades, but as parents, we should look at our children's grades rationally and not pursue too much display and high scores. Good grades in primary school do not mean that they will always perform well in the future, and similarly, children with average grades will not necessarily perform poorly all the time. We can't just evaluate a child's ability and future development potential based on their grades.
In contrast, dads may be more calm and rational in this regard. They are not as keen on showing off their children's achievements as mothers, and pay more attention to the all-round development of their children and the cultivation of real abilities. They value the long-term stability of a child's academic status and learning ability more than a momentary success.
As a parent, when my daughter's final grades came out, I didn't rush to post my child's grades in the class group, family group or circle of friends. I simply recorded my daughter's achievements because in my heart, she has always been great and does not need the recognition and attention of others.
Children's final grades are an important reference indicator, but we need to understand that grades are not the whole of a child's life. We should pay attention to the development of children's hobbies, moral qualities and comprehensive abilities, give them more care and encouragement, and do not chase too much short-term achievements and honors. Let us parents work together to provide a healthy, equal and positive environment for their children to grow up.
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