The guy from Guangxi "take your time" and get 200,000 likes, netizens It's too difficult!
Guangxi little boys"Eat slowly"It has been well received by netizens.
On February 12, a young boy in Guangxi greeted his relatives at the dinner table, on his Weibo, a message"Eat slowly"It attracted 200,000 likes and sparked a lot of heated discussions. Why does an ordinary greeting cause such a big response?
In the picture, the young man in red got up and said to the elders one by one"Grandma eats slowly, uncle eats slowly, uncle eats slowly, Uncle Lu eats slowly, father-in-law eats slowly, third prince eats slowly, mother-in-law eats slowly, father eats slowly, Aunt Lu eats slowly, and the fourth prince eats slowly"。In the video, the child simply said a word"Eat slowly", and in fact, he's talking about the whole table of people. And it's not just grandparents, uncles, and siblings. Although these children may seem happy, their inner anxiety and apprehension are obvious. They were afraid that their sister would say it too"Eat slowly"Words. Would other children say that? What if your child forgets to say hello to any child? Such inertia will form a sense of oppression for children.
This kind"Eat slowly"The customs are not only unique to Guangxi people, but also to our hometown. When I was a child, my family used to accuse me of not saying it"Eat slowly"。Once, as soon as I put my rice bowl on the table, my uncle called out to me and said:"You stinky boy, don't you know that adults haven't eaten yet? Now, I'm standing at a table full of kind faces, and my heart is very uncomfortable. Therefore, I ran everywhere and everywhere, and as a result, I was scolded as "out of sight and out of mind". Whether I was going to leave relatives or not, I was uneasy. During the Chinese New Year, I was even more miserable, not only to be worshiped by the old people, but also to receive red envelopes. Once, I saw two families having a heated argument over who to give the red envelope to, and the scene was chaotic. We have three children in our family, and there is only one child in his family, so it is always difficult to decide how many red envelopes to give them.
one"Eat slowly", which caused heated discussions on the Internet, netizens were not angry because of the content of this comment, but because of the context in which it was located. Children should not be bound by the rules of adults, they should play to their heart's content. Parents can't force them to do these things because as long as parents say so, they will understand. Let the children have a little more responsibility, a little more fun, and another happy Spring Festival.
Guangxi boys"Eat slowly"
Guangxi boys"Eat slowly"This custom of greeting is not limited to eating, but a custom in Guangxi. In Guangxi, when you have to leave the table after eating, you should take the first step to let the elders next to you know that you are chewing slowly. Guangxi people regard this custom as a sign of etiquette and ethics, as well as a sign of respect and care for the elderly. with"Eat slowly"This sentence can express wishes for the health and well-being of the elderly.
In Guangxi, the people of Guangxi have always respected the elderly, and the fine character of filial piety to their parents is an important aspect of their national spirit. In such an atmosphere of mutual respect, people see such customs as a form of respect and care, not just a way to say hello. The people of Guangxi attach great importance to this custom and want to carry it forward.
Guangxi people are not limited to dining, in some special cases, in order to show respect for the elderly, they also say goodbye to the elderly as a courtesy. For example, after a child leaves home, he will say goodbye to his family in turn, such as grandparents, aunts, and aunts. It is a common etiquette habit for the people of Guangxi to respect and care for relatives, friends and the elderly.
There is a pressure to "chew and swallow slowly" in my heart.
For the people of Guangxi,"Eat slowly"It is a manifestation of respect and love, but for children, it often becomes an "internalized" psychology.
When eating, the children must speak to the elders one by one"Eat slowly"This requires them to keep in mind the order of the elders and to ensure that they do not lose one of them. If you miss it, you will be scolded. Such blame and blame can make children feel guilty and neurotic, which can make them worry about making mistakes.
In addition, in other situations, such as Chinese New Year greetings or farewells, children should remember long lists and greet them one by one to say goodbye. This is also a kind of pressure and a burden for children. In this kind of social activity, they have to deal with a lot of unfamiliar relatives, and they have to follow it"Eat slowly"which annoys them a lot.
Such customs and habits will also bring a lot of constraints to children, so that they have to do things they don't want to do, such as greeting according to the rules, visiting relatives, chatting with the elderly, etc. This restriction restricts children's joy and freedom, making them lose the joy of playing.
So, though"Eat slowly"It is a traditional method of respect and care, but parents should also be aware that it can be a great burden on their children and make them feel very uncomfortable. Parents should fully respect children's emotions, so that children can enjoy more, enjoy more, restrain less, and establish rules less.
Outline. Eat slowly"This little habit has caused heated discussions on the Internet, and many netizens have also praised it. In Guangxi, this behavior is an act of respect and love, but in the eyes of children, it can also make them feel nervous and embarrassed. Parents should respect children's feelings, reduce regulations, and let children have more joy and freedom.