The writer Su Cen once said:
The rule of love is that the more you like it, the more timid you are. It makes the most brazen of the brazen of the of wary of the brave, and of the most fearless of them to tremble.
Because I love you, I will care about your feelings and don't do things that make you sad.
We are all past the age of listening to love and no longer believe in sweet words, so it depends on each other's actions.
If a man does the following behavior, he doesn't love you at all, so don't give it anymore
The man who will calculate you doesn't love you at all
Zhou Guoping once said in "Settle Your Heart": "Love is distress without reason and tolerance without preconditions." ”
A man who really loves you will feel sorry for you and care for you for no reason, instead of calculating you all the time.
Some netizens shared their experience that she and her husband had just finished their wedding, and her husband came to her to ask for bride price.
Before marriage, she repeatedly asked her husband how much money his family owed, and her husband replied no.
After getting married, her husband told her that she owed 200,000 yuan, and wanted her to take out the 200,000 yuan of the bride price for emergencies, and begged her to take out some of the dowry, give him an extra 60,000 yuan, let him repay the debt first, and he would invest the extra 60,000 yuan in business.
Some netizens in the comment area said: "This person can't do it, he must have already figured out how to plan your bride price and dowry." ”
Someone else said: "Hurry up, your marriage won't last long, he is too calculating." ”
A man with a bad character will have calculations in his eyes, your feelings are dispensable to him, and what is more important in his heart is his interests.
The poor man who cries with you doesn't love you at all
Yu Minhong said: "A calculating, selfish man, a man who sees a copper plate bigger than a grinding plate, will overshadow the world of men." ”
How can such a man give a woman a lifetime of happiness?
My friend shared her feelings with me some time ago, and her boyfriend often told her: "I have no money, I can't live anymore, I can only eat steamed buns" and ......
And every time she told her, it was her boyfriend who was looking for her, which made her very reserved every time she was with her boyfriend, and she was careful not to spend his money again.
She also took this aspect into account before, and she also paid for it, but she didn't have as much as her boyfriend.
But after her boyfriend often complained, she was no longer embarrassed to spend her boyfriend's money.
Even though her boyfriend said it was okay and told her that the money I made was yours, she felt guilty when her boyfriend kept complaining after their date.
Whether a man is worth entrusting or not, character is the most important cornerstone. And how a person's character is, it depends on his subconscious attitude towards you.
A poor man who often cries with you doesn't love you at all, if you meet such a man, it is the best choice to stop the loss in time.
The man who really loves you, for fear that he will not give you enough
There is a line in the movie "Predecessor 3" that says: "The way to prove that a man really loves you is to be willing to spend money for you, and second, to be willing to marry you." ”
A man who really loves you will willingly spend money for you, for fear that he will not give you enough.
Zhang Zhilin said something in the show, which impressed me very much.
There was a hypothetical question: What would you say to your wife if you had only one day left in your life?
Zhang Zhilin said affectionately: "Yuan Yuyi, if I really leave, will you have enough money?" If you say enough, I'll be at ease. ”
In the relationship between men and women, to see how much sincerity a person has for you, don't listen with your ears, but look at his actual actions, and know how to feel with your heart.
In fact, happiness is very simple, may you finally be able to meet the person who loves you to the bone, warm with each other, and spend the rest of your life together.
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