A person who shoulders responsibility will regret less about the past and be more grateful for the beauty of life bathed in the sun. When the sun shines on the road, the snow melts, the wind warms, the flowers bloom, and the butterflies fill the slopes and trees.
Experiencing the dark night is not to immerse people in the darkness and not be able to extricate themselves, but to make you understand that new light can grow in old things.
Just like the field you have cultivated for many years, this year you can still harvest a new crop of grain with good rain, frequent weeding, and pesticide spraying.
Just like those old textbooks you have read, you used to think that they were worthless goods, all of which were broken sesame seeds chewed by predecessors, but after you have a certain amount of life experience and experienced the storms of life, you will find that they are true insights, and you can gain new knowledge and new understanding from them.
This person has never experienced a low point, and he does not know how precious the happiness of the sun and the sun is. Even if you get along with others, if you want to be happy, you don't want to see how compatible you are, but how you can run into each other's differences, seek common ground while reserving differences, and form a consensus.
After all, it's easy to get together, as long as you ask for it, you can get along as you want; But if you don't get along, without a tolerant and responsible heart, without a warm psychology, who wants to get along with you.
It's always as cold as ice, and there are people who keep approaching, and say that you are his true love, not for wealth or color, but for melting your frost. You can believe that you have really seen a ghost and been charmed.
This person, if you want to be happy, you have to withstand ** and flickering, and at the same time you can lower your expectations for the future. Don't feel that tomorrow is the same when life is prosperous today, not necessarily, time changes, people will change, fortune will change, life will also fluctuate, this life is a process of constantly going uphill and down the mountain and treading the waves.
The important thing is to do your best to take the responsibility you should bear, not to evade the corresponding responsibility, not to be childish, to be picky, to be able to be a person and do things without regrets, and happiness will naturally come.
Sometimes after being close to nature for a long time, I feel that this person is the same as a flower, you don't open, always closed, who can smell your fragrance, who can feel your beauty, who can give you happiness and pleasure?
Only if you bloom first, beauty will naturally come to you, and good luck will naturally come to you. Slowly, life changes day by day, and happiness will increase.
After all, only by being yourself can the results be as you wish. Blindly expecting others to pay for you, no one is a fool. If someone inexplicably pays for you and does not ask for anything in return, this is not necessarily lucky, who knows what pitfalls are waiting for you in the future. Eating three meals and returning a table to others, the Chinese pay attention to a courtesy exchange, and the human affection that should be returned should not be taken for granted. I have eaten a lot of benefits, and I know that I will definitely be made to vomit later, but sooner or later.
If the result is not as expected, you can also accept the fate of not rejecting. There is nothing to complain about, if everyone in this world can achieve what they want, then why should they struggle? What kind of blessings, what kind of lanterns, and what kind of wishes to make to the gods?
can be successful, the heart rejoices; While life values the results, we should also pay attention to the experience of the process, and in the end we are just pursuing a no regrets and no complaints.
There is no regret in the heart, and you can naturally hear the sound of the plants pulling out joints in their respective seasons; There is no complaint, the heart is at peace, enough to wait for the happiness you want; No regrets, even if the world is so big, I can't go out to see, just guard the eaves and tiles and watch the snowflakes fall with my beloved.
If you want to be a person without regrets, no complaints, no regrets, and have a good experience, I think it lies in you doing what you should do now. It doesn't require you to think twice and be able to take it step by step, at least to be able to take the current step.
Flower Dynasty. Flowers bloom beside the road, and butterflies fly in the wild.
Children chase each other and play with the flowers.
The scenery of the rivers and mountains is beautiful, and the birds are singing and the willows are hanging.
The sun is colorful, and the wanderer returns slowly.
Cui Yuan came to the east, and Jun Ge was yesterday.
Warmth accompanies you, sighing that the cold turns to ashes.
The branches and leaves are merry, and passers-by compete to see the spring glow.
The flowers are blooming, and everything has slowly returned.