As the saying goes: "A small fire depends on support, and a big fire depends on life".
In the entertainment industry, there are some people who are obviously excellent in terms of appearance and acting skills, but they always can't enter the ranks of big hits.
One of the actors is Luo Gang.
Hearing this name, I'm afraid many people will think about it for a while, trying to match the name with the face in their minds.
When talking about the roles he played in "Plum Blossom Three Alleys: Water and Clouds", such as Wang Zimo and Zhao Zhiwei, an instructor at the Military Medical University.
Presumably, many people will suddenly understand, as if they are old friends, and sigh: "It turned out to be him." ”
It's uneventful at work, and married life isn't as good as it should be.
It wasn't until the age of 45 that Luo Gang finally found a stable marriage, but unexpectedly, his wife also suffered from a family genetic disease, ......
Nortel's 84th class can be called a year of talents, Luo Gang, Wang Zhiwen, Gao Baobao, Hu Yajie, etc. are all students of the year, and they are talented.
Regrettably, however, Luo Gang is the hidden dragon.
After graduating in 1898, Luo Gang was immediately appreciated by the famous director Wang Shuo and was selected as the leading actor in "Half Fire and Half Sea".
In the movie, he plays the role of Zhang Ming, a rebellious and idle gangster who regards feelings as playthings.
In the later stage, he will realize how his actions have caused Wu Di, and finally change his degree, showing the image of the prodigal son who does not change his money.
However, this dramatic plot is difficult to represent, because true repentance and enlightenment never stop at the outward appearance, but are a kind of sublimation and purification of the soul.
Reassemble the pieces of the past.
In order to deeply understand the role of Zhang Ming, Luo Gang can be said to have put a lot of effort into it.
Thankfully, the end result did not disappoint.
The film received good reviews in its early days.
It also opened up a new situation for Luo Gang's career.
Qiong Yao has never disappointed in casting, even if her private life is not considered.
The "Qiong Girl" and "Qiong Yao Xiaosheng" she portrayed, no matter when they are presented, are a fresh and moving and amazing existence.
Luo Gang, an actor with a handsome appearance and elegant demeanor, also attracted Qiong Yao's attention because of his appearance in the film "Half of the Fire and Half of the Sea".
Qiong Yao immediately invited Luo Gang.
Luo Gang never dared to think that he would become the second male lead in Qiong Yao's drama, not to mention that at that time, he also worked with Qiong Yao's frequent cooperation with Xiaosheng Ma Jingtao, the first beauty in the mainland Chen Hong, and Chen Derong, who had been famous for a long time.
There is no doubt that this is an opportunity to work with Chen Kun, Zhang Ziyi and Zhou Xun at the same time.
In order to shoot this drama well, Luo Gang must not slack off at all, and must seize this opportunity.
As soon as this drama was broadcast, it quickly set off a trend in the two sides of the Taiwan Strait.
However, Wang Zimo, played by Luo Gang, was once again not widely recognized and remained obscure.
Luo Gang encountered the same result twice in a row, and he couldn't help but feel a little discouraged.
At the same time, his love life has experienced waves of ups and downs.
It is often said in people's mouths that the workplace is frustrated and the love field is proud.
However, for Luo Gang, this sentence is a special case.
Luo Gang had experienced 3 relationships before meeting his wife Hao Lei, but these 3 relationships failed to last for various reasons.
Luo Gang felt extremely depressed because of this, and even doubted himself.
Seeing his depressed look, his friend decided to organize a party and invited Luo Gang to attend, so that he could socialize more with people and not always think about things that didn't matter.
Luo Gang was invited to a party in 2009, but unexpectedly met the true love of his life at this party.
Hao Lei is the woman's name, but she is not Hao Lei, an actor in the film and television industry.
She is not a professional actress, but an amateur woman who is 23 years younger than him.
Although he knew that he was far from the age difference between him and the girl who made him fall in love, Luo Gang decided to try to win her over.
Under Luo Gang's strong pursuit, Hao Lei soon fell in love, but when she shyly introduced Luo Gang to her parents, she was resolutely opposed by them.
The family knows the family best, and they know their daughter's character best, because they are her parents.
Luo Gang is 23 years older than his daughter, not only that, but considering the entertainment environment he is in, there are many stars similar to him who have divorced, cheated, and been illegitimate over the years.
Hao Lei's parents were afraid that their daughter would suffer, and they made up their minds to be a bad guy who interfered in their relationship, no matter how Hao Lei persuaded them, they firmly disagreed.
Luo Gang has realized the deeper concerns of the other party's parents, while Hao Lei mistakenly thinks that the parents do not agree because of the large age difference between the two.
Luo Gang also showed his sincerity in this regard.
Hao Lei's parents half-pushed and half-agreed, because they saw with their own eyes that Luo Gang treated their daughter very carefully.
Just when everyone was happily preparing for the wedding, a premarital medical examination came suddenly like a bolt from the blue, which caught everyone off guard.
Hao Lei was found to have a genetic disease during a premarital test, which made her feel like she was falling into hell and sadness after planning a wedding, trying on a wedding dress, and looking forward to her marriage.
She didn't intend to hide it, so one day, Hao Lei Yoro just came out and revealed the test results and the doctor's advice to him.
To be honest, Luo Gang was indeed a little stunned for a while, after all, for most Chinese people, getting married and having children is a deeply rooted concept in the hearts of the people, especially for people of his age.
Seeing that his lover was no longer crying, Luo Gang felt a feeling in his heart: as long as the two cherish each other, maybe the child is not so important.
As long as the relationship between the two of us is good, it is okay to have children or not. The most important thing is that we get through each day together.
After Hao Lei's parents listened to Luo Gang's words, their last worries were eliminated.
The couple happily married in February 2010.
The wedding was unusually low-key, in stark contrast to the grandiose and sensational weddings held by other celebrities in the entertainment industry. Apart from friends and family, there are very few people who know about it.
As a result, Hao Lei has less of the troubles that many celebrity spouses often have, that is, she doesn't have to endure the pickiness of her husband's fans.
They have been in love with each other since they got married, but as time went on, Luo Gang's mother began to hint in her words and deeds that they should start having children.
Hao Lei felt pressure, which was also aggravated by Luo's mother's urging.
Luo Gang saw that his wife was starting to think crankily again, so he found his mother and explained the reason to her.
Exactly how Luo Gang persuaded his mother is unknown, but since that day, Luo's mother has never brought up the topic of hugging her grandson, and her attitude towards Hao Lei has been as kind as ever.
Hao Lei saw all this in her eyes and remembered it deeply.
Luo's mother was getting thinner and thinner due to the torture of illness, and her mental state was getting worse and worse.
Hao Lei made up her mind to give her mother-in-law a child, so as not to leave her with regrets.
Law was shocked and surprised by this thought.
As an ordinary person, Luo Gang, like everyone else, would not refuse a child with his own bloodline.
He saw that his friends and fellow children were already in school, but he himself did not have children, and it was false to say that he was not envious.
He was also worried about his wife.
He told his wife that the children's affairs should not be thought about too much, and that we could go with the flow.
Until May 2013, 48-year-old Luo just ushered in the joy of being a father.
However, the arrival of this child was extremely difficult.
One month after Hao Lei became pregnant, her wife had symptoms of threatened miscarriage, so she had to start bed rest early.
As the fetus gradually grows up, other pregnant women have already shown a plump figure and ruddy complexion, but Hao Lei is thinner than before pregnancy.
She couldn't even eat properly, and even if she managed to eat some food, she would soon vomit it all up, and her face would be extremely pale.
Luo Gang gave up all his work in order to take better care of his wife.
During the days of being with the bed in the hospital, Luo Gang was deeply aware of his wife's difficulty, and there was almost nothing he could do.
Luo Gang had a conflict in his heart for a long time, and he witnessed his wife suffering this kind of torment every day. In the end, he decided to persuade his wife to give up the child.
However, he never expected that it was this sentence that caused Su Ri's gentle wife to be furious.
After Luo Gang saw the situation, he didn't dare to talk anymore, but took care of his pregnant wife more carefully, carefully preparing various meals every day.
During that time, Hao Lei often needed to receive infusions and injections**.
It wasn't until the birth of their son in 2013 that the couple breathed a sigh of relief and felt like they had been amnestied.
Life for new parents is not all smooth sailing.
Hao Lei suffered a serious deficit after giving birth and urgently needed to fully recuperate. At the same time, her mother was also seriously ill. Fortunately, Hao Lei has a mother-in-law who feels sorry for her daughter and takes the initiative to take care of her daughter's confinement.
However, Luo Gang felt inconvenient to put all the responsibility on his mother-in-law, so the responsibility of taking care of his son fell on his shoulders.
Small babies are not so easy to care for.
Despite the guidance and help of his mother-in-law, Luo Gang was still very busy, but over time, he gradually became proficient.
Hao Lei's mother saw all this and said to her daughter:
Your vision is good, and it is worth suffering for him.
Luo Gang has already lost a lot of weight, waiting for Hao Lei to come out of confinement.
After Luo Gang had a child, motivation and concern emerged in his heart.
To this end, he worked harder to shoot, hoping to provide a better life for his wife and children.
In 2014, Luo Gang participated in the TV series "Tea Song", which quickly won the love of many netizens after it was broadcast. Luo Gang's outstanding performance was once again recognized, and he was nominated for the 13th Costume Actor Award.
Luo Gang has never had a chance to become an A-list star since then, but eventually became a successful actor.
With his excellent acting skills and solid morality, Luo Gang is still constantly invited.
Sun Lao's stubborn happiness, because he met you, and a happy family.
He also gave a wonderful performance in this year's "Changsha Nightlife".
Maybe Luo Gang can't be compared with other actors in his career, but he is the happiest in his love life.
Whether it is enjoying abundant family time, or a salary higher than that of first-line white-collar workers, or the coexistence of wealth and leisure, or even being able to avoid excessive attention and interruption, such a life is envied by everyone.
It also shows that even if you don't get involved in gossip, hype or marketing, or use all kinds of tricks to attract attention, as long as you are strong enough, there will still be many theatrical projects waiting for you to perform.