Modern women, when choosing a partner, tend to marry someone with better conditions. But can a noble marriage bring happiness? I don't think so.
I think you should choose a partner who is similar to your own conditions. This includes family background, educational background, ability, family environment, hobbies, living habits, etc., and there must be similarities, that is, matching.
Only by getting along in this way can it be easier to achieve equality and no one will be arrogant.
Xiaomei's family environment has not been good since she was a child. She has always dreamed of a good environment. Therefore, when looking for a partner, they always tend to choose rich people. Xiaomei works hard and keeps in touch with rich people. She hopes that through her hard work and beauty, she can find a rich and prestigious husband and live a happy life.
There is a man who loves her deeply and treats her well, but Xiaomei always rejects him. Xiaomei said that the man was an ordinary office worker with a stable monthly salary and no house or car, so she would not associate with someone like him. Although this man is affectionate and dotes on her, Xiaomei still does not choose him. Until Xiaomei met Mr. Wang, a man from a privileged family. Although he has a stable job and an ample income, his appearance completely changes Xiaomei's life. Xiaomei can now enjoy high-end restaurants and fine dining, wear designer clothes, and ride in a luxury car.
All this makes Xiaomei feel happy. After that, Xiaomei married a man from a good family, thinking that she would be able to live a happy life. However, the reality is far from as beautiful as she imagined. After getting married, she found that there were a lot of communication barriers and differences in values between her husband and her, and she felt lonely and lost.
Xiaomei became a housewife, but her mother-in-law always looked down on her and often made things difficult for her. Her husband gave her enough money every month, but he only used her as a nanny. When Xiaomei and her mother-in-law have a conflict, her husband always quarrels with her, usually doesn't care about her feelings, and often ignores her. Although Xiaomei is materially satisfied, she feels very lonely spiritually.
Compared to Xiaomei, Xiaolin is younger, prettier, and has a stable job. The man she chooses is an ordinary office worker who suits her and a man who truly loves her. Although their family was not wealthy, they grew up together as a couple and lived a normal and warm life.
After experiencing some contradictions and setbacks, Kobayashi became happier and happier. Although my husband's income is not high, he is very considerate and takes good care of me. Their lives are full of love and warmth.
When choosing a partner, a woman should not pay too much attention to the material conditions of her partner, but should pay attention to his character and character. More important than this is whether the feelings and concepts of the two people match or match. Women also need to remain financially independent and avoid being overly dependent on each other.
Through these two stories, we deeply understand that women do not need to be married to find happiness. Happiness does not come from wealth or status, but from being honest with each other and being considerate of each other. Therefore, we must not have such a misconception.
The key to pursuing one's own happiness is not the position of the other person, but the emotional foundation and mutual understanding between us. A noble marriage does not guarantee happiness, and an ordinary marriage does not guarantee happiness.
The older generation often says that if you find a partner, you can get along, and it's no wonder. If the gap between two people is too large, more conflict will arise.