In this world, there is a kind of mother who blames her child for her misfortune and makes her child feel meaningless debt and guilt.
They are like a shadow in life that can never be shaken off. Chizuruko Ueno once described it this way: ".She is an ordinary bad mother who blames her children for her misfortune and makes her children feel meaningless debt and guilt
This kind of mother,They blame their children for their life failures, unhappy marriages, and life difficulties。They complain about the troubles and troubles that their children bring to them, and let their children take on responsibilities that they should not bear from an early age.
They treat their children as their own emotional trash cansAccept your child's negative emotions whether they want to or not. Such a mother allows her child to live in depression and pain from an early age, unable to enjoy a happy childhood.
Such mothers, they make their children feel meaningless debt and guilt. They often say to their children, ".It's all because of you that I endure this life. "I'm all for you, so I won't get divorced. "I'm all working so hard for you. ”These words make children feel that they are a burden to their mothers and the source of their mother's misfortune from an early age.
Children will think that they are unworthy of love and worthless. Such a mother makes the child lose self-confidence and self-esteem from an early age, and cannot grow up healthily.
This kind of mother, they don't realize that a mother's love is unconditional, inclusive, and warm. A mother's love, like sunshine, can illuminate a child's heart; A mother's love, like rain and dew, can nourish the growth of a child.
As the famous people say:"Mother's love is the greatest force in the world, and it works miracles。"A mother's love can help children find hope in difficult situations and light in darkness.
This kind of mother, they do not understand, the mother's responsibility is to educate the child, to guide the child, to support the child. A mother's responsibility is like a lighthouse that can guide her child forward; A mother's responsibility, like a helmsman, can help her child navigate life.
As the ancients said: "Teach the child well, and the mother will be the world." "Mother's responsibility allows children to gain strength in their growth and find courage in challenges.
This kind of mother, they don't understand that the happiness of the mother is based on the happiness of the child. A mother's happiness, like a flower, needs a child's smile to bloom; A mother's happiness, like a fruit, needs the child's achievements to reap.
A mother's happiness is to see her child's growth and happiness。"A mother's happiness can make her child feel proud of success and satisfaction in happiness.
In this world, there is a kind of mother who blames her child for her misfortune and makes her child feel meaningless debt and guilt. They are like a shadow in life that can never be shaken off. Let's call on such mothers to let go of complaints and accusations and embrace their children with love and care. Let's call on such mothers to support their children with understanding and respect, so that children can gain strength and confidence in their growth。Only in this way can mother and child work together to create a happy and wonderful life.