Everyone should choose carefully when they are friends. Friendship between people is based on mutual kindness. Don't admit that the other person is your friend without thinking just because they are good to you. Kindness is in the nature of a person, and a kind person is not only good to you, but also to everyone around you. Therefore, when making friends, you must choose good people and choose kind people as friends, so as to ensure that your interpersonal relationships are smoother and closer.
Don't take the villains around you lightly, as they may play a certain role in supervising us. Instead of being afraid of the existence of villains, it is better to cherish their existence. In life, the presence of villains can make us more cautious and make fewer mistakes. Their supervision keeps us awake and alert at all times. Therefore, you should look at the villains around you with a normal heart, learn more experiences and lessons from them, and make yourself more mature.
When we meet a bull man, the best thing to do is not to think, learn or be nice to him, but to learn to shut up and listen to his words and experiences. Only by keeping your mouth shut can you make the cow man willing to share what he knows with you. And building relationships is not achieved by speaking, but by listening. If we keep talking, then we are only helping others, while listening allows others to help us. Therefore, learn to keep your mouth shut, listen to the experience and knowledge of others, and turn it into your own wealth.
Don't forget those who have helped you, because most of them only add to the cake in good times and not in bad times. When life is at a low point, few people will lend a hand. Therefore, we should cherish those who have helped us, because they are the light on our life path. Their encouragement and help have given us the courage and motivation to move forward.
Don't pleaseRich people, because you can't enjoy the life that comes with their wealth. People at different levels have different levels of lifetheir worldYou have difficulty understanding and blending in. Even if you try your best to cater to them and endure humiliation, you may be able to get a little benefit, but in the end you will find that you are only hurting yourself by doing so, because it is not suitableShoesIt will make you uncomfortable, and people who are not sincere will make your heart ache. So, don't force it, don't please it, or you'll end up devaluing yourself.
Knowing someone with authority is not a great thing. In this world, there is no such thing as a free lunch, especially for those who have power. The reason why they were able to reach this position must be extraordinary. No one is obligated to help you for free, especially those in high positions. Unless you are able to give an equivalent return, but it is obvious that you are not on the same level as them at all. Therefore, instead of pinning your hopes on others, it is better to strive to improve your own ability and value.
Don't argue with people who don't have the same cognition and level as you, because they will never understand your point of view. Instead of wasting energy on these people, it is better to pretend to be confused and avoid embarrassment and conflict. Sometimes, it is wiser to be confused than to be sensible, because there is no need to fight with others for your own opinions. Instead of wasting your energy on these people, divert it to something more meaningful.
When it comes to technical issues, don't offer to help if you haven't been asked for advice. Taking the initiative to help others will not make others remember your kindness, on the contrary, if you help wrongly, others are likely to think that you did it on purpose. The end result can be resentment and misunderstanding. Therefore, it is important to choose carefully when and how to help others to avoid unnecessary trouble for yourself.
Whether you're going to the office of a leader or colleague, or to the home of a friend or relative, remember the etiquette of knocking. Even if the door is open, take the initiative to knock on the door as a sign of respect. This is not only a sign of improving personal accomplishment, but also a good way to avoid embarrassment and conflict.
No matter how good your relationship with colleagues, friends, and relatives is, you should ask if it is convenient before visiting them. Don't come to your home just because you have a good relationship, it's disrespectful to someone else's time and privacy. If the other person doesn't have time or is in a bad mood and doesn't want to see you, doing so can also make people hate you.
Whether you're with colleagues, friends, or relatives, don't show off to them what you have, especially what they lack. Because your ostentatious is likely to arouse their jealousy. The result is either that they are estranged from you or that they put you in small shoes. Therefore, learn to hide your strengths and don't show off your strengths.
These seemingly inconspicuous details can play an important role in relationships. By recognizing the essence of people, cherishing the villains around you, learning to listen, cherishing those who have helped you, and not pleasing themRich peopleAnd the powerful, avoid arguing with pedantic people, do not take the initiative to help others, knock on the door with courtesy, ask the convenience first, avoid arrogance, we can better handle interpersonal relationships, maintain good interpersonal interactions, and make our lives more stable and happy.