Mr. Yang Jiang once profoundly pointed out: "As we grow older, we must learn to face all kinds of chaos and challenges in life with a peaceful mind, and at the same time, we also need to have decisive and resolute means to solve those difficult problems." Kindness alone is not enough to cope with complex realities, too soft-hearted will not protect ourselves, and tears will not bring us any help. The point is, you need to make yourself stronger. ”
He further metaphorically said: "People should live like a hedgehog, read the pages of life with the wind, and bravely tear it off, learn and grow when they encounter something they don't understand." Only when you become strong enough will you find that no one will dare to bully you easily anymore. ”
Mr. Yang Jiang emphasized that it is okay to choose to be a kind person, but this kindness must be accompanied by a certain edge. If your forbearance is in exchange for someone else's gain, then you should straighten your back, raise your head, and defeat the opponent at all costs. The attitude towards others should be based on their attitude towards you, which is not only a basic courtesy, but also a necessary rule.
He reminds us that tears don't solve anything, and that in the end, the only one who can really help you is yourself. When you start working on the process of becoming stronger, you will find that many things are not as important as you think.
As we grow up, we will gradually understand that true strength is forged through countless grievances. We have no choice but to make ourselves strong. Even though the process can be very difficult and painful, once you become strong, no one will dare to bully you easily.
Mr. Yang Jiang also told us that if your kindness can shine through, your life will naturally be full of fragrance over time. You should have the upbringing of not harming others, but at the same time, you should have the aura of not being harmed, provide protection for your own life's journey, and ensure that you can move forward safe and sound.