The nickname "Xu Da Ma Bang" is still fresh in many people's memories.
This role is from the popular drama "Lin Hai Xueyuan", and the one who plays him is Qin Weidong.
At that time, Qin Weidong was in the limelight, and his career and relationship seemed to be on the rise.
However, the good times didn't last long, and overnight, he fell from the "big brother" on the screen to the "skinny skinny" appearance he is now.
What's going on here? What happened to Qin Weidong?
thought he would be popular until he grew old, but how did he become what he is now? Many netizens said that when they saw the current Qin Weidong, they really couldn't believe it, is this still the same person from before?
It turned out that all this had to do with the fact that he had a bad habit - alcoholism.
It was this bad habit that made him lose two marriages, and also made him change from a handsome and strong man to the emaciated appearance he is now.
Alcoholism led to the failure of the first marriage.
Qin Weidong was born in a military family, and since he was a child, his father liked to find his comrades-in-arms at home to drink.
Perhaps it was the influence of this environment that he contracted the vice of alcoholism at a very young age.
When his father saw that he had this hobby, he not only did not stop it, but was happy to have a drink with him.
My mother was very troubled by this and tried to dissuade her many times, but all of them failed.
In the long run, alcoholism became a part of Qin Weidong's life.
In high school, he even skipped classes to go out for a drink, so that his grades plummeted and he eventually failed to go to college.
Under his father's relationship, Qin Weidong enlisted in the army as a soldier.
By chance, he entered the entertainment industry and gradually became famous.
It was also during this period that he met his first wife.
In the beginning, Qin Weidong spent most of his time at work.
For the sake of his career, he worked tirelessly and ran around.
His wife worked hard at home to raise her husband and children, waiting for him to come home.
However, the number of times Qin Weidong went home was very small.
Even when I came back, I was partying with friends and drinking until late at night.
The wife could no longer bear this longing, and cried and said to him, "Can you work less and spend more time with me and the children?" ”
Qin Weidong was still immersed in the sense of accomplishment brought by his work, and he was unimpressed by his wife's request.
In the end, the wife chose to divorce.
After the divorce, Qin Weidong became more dedicated to his work, and his alcoholism became more and more serious.
The second marriage, also ruined by alcohol.
After leaving his first wife, Qin Weidong met his second wife at work.
Both of them are insiders, and their relationship warmed up and soon entered into marriage.
At first, the newlyweds were sweet and happy.
However, the good times did not last long, and the familiar problem reappeared - Qin Weidong still went his own way and did not return all night.
The wife explained the reasoning and tried to get him to quit drinking, but it all ended in failure.
Finally, she also chose to leave, no longer suffering from this torment.
The failure of both marriages is inseparable from Qin Weidong's alcoholism.
After leaving his second wife, he indulged himself in drinking.
In order to soothe the unhappiness in his heart, he often drank alone until dawn.
Eventually, the alcohol caused him to fall ill.
The long-term alcoholism finally made Qin Weidong pay a terrible price.
In 2011, he suddenly fell ill with roseola and nearly died.
Because he had no relatives around, Fa Xiao Zeng Bin rushed to the hospital to take care of him.
The two fall in love in the process and eventually get married.
Zeng Bin repeatedly emphasized to Qin Weidong that he hoped he would quit drinking and not repeat the mistakes of the past.
Qin Weidong saw that his two marriages were ruined by alcohol, and this time he finally came to his senses.
He promised Zeng Bin that he would never indulge in drinking again.
However, it was too late, years of alcoholism had left Qin Weidong's body in a semi-wasted state.
The results of the examination showed that he had developed severe cirrhosis.
Looking at her ailing husband, Zeng Bin was distressed.
Qin Weidong also felt that he owed his beloved wife and promised her to take good care of his body.
Since then, he has retired from the entertainment industry, no longer takes any work, and fades out of the public eye to concentrate on recuperation.
However, cirrhosis of the liver cannot be cured in a short period of time, and years of alcoholism have left irreversible damage on him.
Today's Qin Weidong has become skinny and skinny, and he is like two people in the past.
Fans sighed when they saw him now, and they could no longer see the shadow of him who was once tall.
Qin Weidong's life is a typical case ruined by alcoholism.
As a public figure, alcohol can be used as a lubricant for socializing, but over-dependence can be addictive.
And the consequence of alcoholism is to destroy one's body and feelings.
I hope that Qin Weidong's experience can serve as a warning to more people.
Alcohol is like a double-edged sword, and you need to be careful of getting lost while enjoying yourself.
Otherwise, you may ruin everything you have and thus go to the point of no return.