Blind dates are popular not only among young people, but also among older people. We all know that it is very difficult for a husband and wife to grow old, because there is always an end to life, and many elderly people have to endure the pain of widowhood. Those who leave are liberated, and those who are alive will not only feel uncomfortable, but also have a more difficult life.
Although most of the elderly have children and daughters, they will rely on them in their old age. But if the old man always wants to rely on his children, life will definitely not be happy, it is better to find a wife for himself directly, the old couple has a discussion, mutual tolerance, and the son can live a happy and stable life.
Therefore, many elderly people like blind dates very much, hoping to find a suitable partner for themselves through blind dates. 64-year-old Uncle Zhou also wanted to find a partner for himself, and when he met with his blind date for the first time, the other party brought a full 9 people, and Uncle Zhou was dumbfounded when he checked out. What's going on here? Let's take a look.
My surname is Zhou and I am 64 years old. I've been widowed for decades, and I didn't think about looking for one again when I was younger, when my mother had already found one for me. The two of us have lived together for a while, and I originally planned that if the other party is sincere to our father and daughter, then I will get a certificate with her, treat her as a wife in the future, and live a good life as a family.
At first, the other party's performance was also very good, gentle and virtuous, and treated my daughter well. However, one time when I went home to get documents during work, I happened to find out the true face of the other party, it turned out that when I was not at home, she always secretly beat my daughter.
I would never dare to marry such a woman, so in the end I separated from her. At that time, my daughter was still young and really needed a mother, but I was also worried that I would find a bad woman, which would be bad for my daughter in the future, and even leave a psychological shadow on my daughter.
So I stopped thinking about remarrying and lived alone with my daughter. Our father and daughter have been dependent on each other for many years, and our feelings cannot be expressed in words. When my daughter was not married, she told me that she would take me to live with her when she got married, and she would not let me be alone.
I was happy to hear my daughter say that, but I didn't think too much about it. After my daughter got married, she did want to take me over to support the elderly, but I don't think my father-in-law is comfortable living at my son-in-law's house, even if my son-in-law has always been very filial, I don't want to bother them in the past.
After all, there is still a generation gap between young and old, and the living habits of all aspects are also different, so it is better to live separately.
It's really easy to be alone, but if it goes on like this for a long time, I also feel a little tasteless. Most of the people of my age live with their children, helping to take care of their grandchildren every day, and their lives are lively. Even if you don't live with your children, you have a wife with you, and your life will not be lonely, unlike me, who eats alone and sleeps alone every day.
Once, when I was at a party with my friends, I confided in them about my troubles. A friend told me that in my situation, it is suitable to find a wife and have someone to accompany me, and I will not be lonely in the future.
I thought to myself that this was really a good idea, so the idea of finding a wife came to me. At first, I was a little hesitant because I was already old, and I was worried that my daughter would not agree to find a wife at this age. But my daughter and son-in-law didn't have any opinions, and said that I should have found them earlier, and I could rest assured that I had a companion with them.
That's how my blind date began.,The first two blind dates were introduced by friends.,It doesn't feel so good.,After getting along for a while, I don't think it's very suitable.,So I didn't contact again.。
The third blind date was introduced to me by a friend of my colleague, who was a matchmaker, and I heard that he had facilitated many pairs, and the success rate was very high. Before we met, they kept telling me how good the woman was, and they showed me the woman's **. Overall, I'm looking forward to this blind date.
In order to show the importance of the woman, I chose a Chinese restaurant with a good reputation when I met for the first time. I also put on my newly bought clothes, spent two hours dressing up, went to the flower shop to buy a bouquet of flowers, and went to the restaurant in advance.
When I arrived, the waiter told me that the person I had asked had arrived. I was still a little worried, I thought that half an hour early was already considered early, but I actually asked the woman to wait for me, for fear that the woman would be dissatisfied. However, I am also more satisfied, I think the woman has a sense of time and came early, definitely because she attaches more importance to me.
But as soon as I opened the door, I thought I had gone to the wrong box, and there were ten people sitting in it, three men and seven women, who were talking lively.
I wanted to turn around and leave, but then one of them waved at me, and this person was the friend of my colleague, the so-called matchmaker, and we had met twice, so I knew him, and then I knew that I had gone to the wrong door.
After entering the room, I learned that these people were all good friends of my blind date Xiufen, Xiufen's first blind date, they were not very relieved, and they also wanted to come to meet.
I'm very puzzled, I've seen people with friends on blind dates, but I've never seen people with nine people on a blind date, this number is too many.
I'm usually a more eloquent person, but that day it was a blind date, and I saw so many people at once, and I was really a little cramped, and I didn't know what to say.
Just as I was about to call the waiter in to order, Xiufen stopped me and said that they had ordered it in advance and would be ready to eat it immediately. After a few minutes, the dishes came one after another, and about a dozen dishes were ordered.
I often eat at that Chinese restaurant, and I can tell how much these dishes cost, although it costs nearly 2,000 yuan, but I don't care too much.
At the dinner table, we all chatted happily, Xiufen also chatted with me, and the two of us also made an appointment to go to ** on the weekend. The meal lasted about three hours, and after the meal they left first, and I stayed to settle the bill.
However, I was dumbfounded when I checked out, because the meal actually cost more than 12,000 yuan. I thought the waiter had said something wrong, so I repeated the question several times. After the waiter made sure again, I took the bill and looked at it, and it turned out that I had ordered more than what we had eaten at the dinner table.
The women also packed some food before they went back, and the men also asked for a few bottles of wine, so it cost so much money. No wonder so many people came on a blind date, and they ran away to keep me one by one in advance, it turned out that they came to take me as a wronged boss and came to cheat and cheat.
I really didn't want to give this money, and I couldn't eat the overlord meal if I was renewable, so I finally bought the order. The more I thought about it on the way, the more angry I became, I didn't go back home to find a colleague to settle accounts, we used to work together that relationship was okay, who would have thought that he would introduce me to such an unreliable person.
As a result, my colleague was not embarrassed at all, and said that I was not likable to do this. He also said that I am too stingy and too calculating, and no woman will be willing to live with me in the future.
That's when I realized that I shouldn't have let him cross the bridge in the first place, and I had heard that he was a little jealous of me, and I didn't believe it because he was acting so well in front of me. Now I have to believe it, otherwise how would she have asked someone to introduce me to such a person?
After seeing through the other person's personality, I never walked around with him again. Now I'm also very cautious about blind dates, once I see a lot of people coming on blind dates with blind dates, I basically turn around and leave, after all, it's enough to be fooled once in this kind of thing.
I don't dare to ask relatives and friends to introduce people anymore, if it is not successful, or if other problems arise, it is likely to affect our relationship. And some people close to me don't see me well, and always introduce some people who don't match me.