In the marriage market, age often becomes a problem for women. As a 39-year-old leftover woman, I have experienced countless blind dates and met various types of men. Here, I would like to give some advice to sisters: When going on a blind date, don't look for the following 4 types of men.
1. Ma Bao Nan.
Ma Bao Nan refers to those men who have no opinions in front of their mothers and have a serious dependence psychology. Such men often lack the ability to think independently, and it is difficult for them to take on family responsibilities after marriage. They often stand on the mother's side in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes the wife fall into endless grievances.
2. Selfish and self-interested men.
Selfish men refer to men who only think about their own interests and ignore the feelings of others. In the process of dating, this kind of man often makes you feel his indifference and selfishness. It is difficult for them to give their sincerity to others, and it is even more difficult for them to become your support in life after marriage.
3. A man with a heart and a broken leg.
Flowery cheating men refer to those men who are unable to be loyal to a relationship and frequently cheat. This type of man tends to lack a sense of responsibility, and they are unable to give you a sense of security and belonging. After marriage, you are likely to be plunged into endless worries and pains.
Fourth, negative complaining about men.
Negative complaining men refer to those men who are always dissatisfied with life and complain about the injustice of fate. This type of man tends to lack a positive mindset, and they will pass on negativity to you, leaving you in an endless state of exhaustion. Living with a man who complains negatively can greatly reduce the quality of life.
When going on a blind date, we must learn to identify these four types of men and avoid walking into the trap of marriage. At the same time, we must also strive to improve ourselves and become a better version of ourselves. Only in this way can we meet the person who is truly suitable for us and live a happy and fulfilling life.
In this hustle and bustle of the city, I was alone, strolling through the bustling streets. A couple walked by, laughing and talking, and the breath of happiness filled the air. I looked at them, and an inexplicable sentimentality welled up in my heart.
I'm 39 years old and still single. Once, I was also looking forward to love, looking forward to marriage. However, the cruelty of reality has disappointed me again and again. Today, I have become what people call a "leftover girl".
I can't help but think of the men I've been on a blind date with over the years. Some of them are selfish, only thinking about their own interests, ignoring my feelings; Some of them split their hearts and made me fall into endless pain; Some of the negative complaints made me lose confidence in the future.
I didn't get my eye on any of these men. It's not that I'm asking too much, it's that they're not the right fit for me at all. I was looking for a partner I could spend my life with, not a burden that would wear me out.
I believe that in this world, there must be someone who suits me. He'll be somewhere, waiting to meet me. I hope that by the time he comes along, I have become a better version of myself and deserve to be as good as him.
So, I wasn't anxious about my age. On the contrary, I cherish the days of being single even more, and strive to improve myself and make myself better. I know that only in this way can I meet the person who is really suitable for me and live a happy and fulfilling life.
Here, I would like to give some advice to sisters like me: when going on a blind date, you must be cautious. Don't make hasty decisions because of the pressure of age, and don't lower your standards because of loneliness. We need to learn to identify men who are not suitable for us and avoid falling into the trap of marriage.
At the same time, we must also strive to improve ourselves and become a better version of ourselves. Only in this way can we meet the person who is truly suitable for us and live a happy and fulfilling life.
In this era of leftover women, we don't have to be too anxious. Believe in yourself, believe in fate. There will come a time when we will meet the right person at the right time. Let's wait patiently together.