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In life, you will find that some girls have good personalities, naïve, and kind, but they just can't be respected, and their emotions are always internal.
On the contrary, girls who have a better personality and can express their true thoughts will live a more free and comfortable life.
Whether you're single or married, the best care is actually your mood. You allow others to do to you.
If you are too weak to keep the bottom line, then no amount of maintenance is useless, and you will look older than your peers.
A woman with these 2 abilities will look younger and younger, and I hope you will take it all.
01: Dare to refuse, no internal friction.
I like what Mr. Bai Yansong said: "The value of people comes from rejection." Rejection can make you more precious. ”
Whether your efforts can be respected depends on whether you dare to refuse others.
Express your thoughts in the right way, so that others can be clear about your bottom line, and the feelings you give will be valued.
Women who dare to refuse will look younger and younger, because there is no internal friction, their hearts will be more free and joyful, and they are not prone to wrinkles.
Rejection is everyone's right, even if you are ordinary, you still don't have to feel embarrassed.
There are some girls who are not afraid to say no, but they don't know how to do it.
Elegant and dignified refusal, must be learned.
First, you need to think about your own needs and then help others. Those people and things that you don't want to help, you can calmly think about what your feelings are, and don't always wronged yourself.
If you are a very good friend and the other person has a very difficult situation, then you can say yes.
If it's the other way around, you're saying no.
Secondly, it is to learn to talk about conditions.
When you're helping someone, you also need to make small requests appropriately, such as a colleague asking you to help with copywriting, or drawing.
If you can't say no, you can also ask them something you need him to help do.
If a colleague refuses, you have to do it another way, such as asking him to invite you to drink milk tea, or send a small red envelope.
The relationship between people is to have contacts and contacts, and if you dare to make requests, others will not be used to taking advantage of you.
Finally, be good at procrastinating for time.
In life, we will meet some people who are relatively strong and you can't refuse directly.
In cases where there is a risk of harming your own interests, you can use the method of delaying time.
You don't need to say yes right away, learn to buy yourself more time.
Then, the final solution you give is a tactful refusal with an alternative.
For example, I know too much about this, and I can help you ask another friend if you need it.
Women who have the ability to refuse will look younger and younger, and they live a life that is neither humble nor arrogant, and they are relaxed.
02: A high sense of worthiness, love yourself unconditionally.
Those women who have passed the age of 30 will age faster if they still have low self-esteem and a low sense of deserving.
On the contrary, a woman who can love herself unconditionally and please herself will become more and more beautiful.
If you have a high sense of worthiness, you will put your personal feelings in the most important position, and you will not compromise easily, and you will not allow others to bully you at will.
Especially after getting married, you have to face the spirit of your husband, and your in-laws who are not related by blood.
Men will ask you not only to earn money, but also to take care of the housework, the elderly and children.
If you bear these things silently, and even take the initiative to suppress yourself, then no matter how much maintenance you do, you will still age quickly.
Women who will really get younger and younger have a high sense of worthiness, and once the words and deeds proposed by the other party make them feel angry, they will not be submissive.
They will love themselves unconditionally and will not be anyone's vine.