Love is so sincere and wonderful, when we meet each other, there is an expectation, hoping that no matter how long time passes, we can continue to accompany each other.
However, love will disappear, and if you don't cherish it, all the good will stop.
Some couples get married, because of the poor conditions, two people will work together. Slowly, life got better, but because of disagreements, I was unwilling to tolerate, and as a result, I lost this home.
Although there was everything later, I could never return to the good things of the past.
And those couples who can be together until old age will often do these 3 things, and the longer they go, the more they will love.
01: Always praise each other's strengths and appreciate each other
The reason why the relationship is very sweet when you are in love is that both parties see the good side and are willing to praise each other.
However, after getting married, they have to face more pressure together, and there will be more and more conflicts between husband and wife. Spend all day together, and the shortcomings will become apparent.
The relationship between husband and wife is very close, and they will compare and denigrate each other.
Only those couples who have been married for many years, but will continue to praise their other half, will become happier and happier.
Even if you don't have a lot of money in your life, you are very satisfied and happy in your heart.
We all need to be recognized and praised, and the support between couples is even more moving.
Because you are accepted by your partner, you will be more joyful and confident, and no matter how much you are wronged, you will have the strength and courage to persevere.
Most couples who maintain this habit can grow old, and a dull life is the greatest happiness.
02: Mutual understanding and tolerance, willing to back down
It is difficult for husbands and wives to get along without quarrelling, and the environment and habits of each other's growth are different.
Especially after having children, there are more things that need to be discussed together. If everyone's thinking is different and they are unwilling to make concessions, then the relationship will easily fall apart.
Men are mostly rational, and it is difficult for them to understand their partner's emotional needs and grievances.
Therefore, couples who have been married for many years will want to divorce after middle age, and it is a woman's decision.
Most of them feel that they are not respected in the family and do not feel the love of their husbands.
Only couples who truly understand and tolerate each other can accompany each other to old age.
Love itself is short-lived, and how far two people can go depends on each other's endurance.
When there is a conflict between two people's opinions, if you are just selfishly considering your own feelings, after a long time, there will definitely be problems between the husband and wife.
Running a marriage requires appropriate compromises and concessions, so that each other can feel loved and the relationship between husband and wife can be maintained for a long time.
03: Often deep chat, can understand each other
How many couples in their lives are basically not chatting, everyone has their own lives, and there is almost no time to be alone.
The relationship between each other is as if they are strangers, and there is no intersection of languages. If you don't change the status quo, the relationship will most likely break down in the end.
Those couples who can accompany each other until old age have a good habit, that is, they often chat deeply and can understand each other better.
Two people have lived together for more than ten or twenty years, although they know each other very well, but what is in each other's hearts, if they don't communicate often, the relationship will gradually fade.
It is difficult for us to guess what others are thinking, and only heartfelt expression and deep socialization can we be each other's soul mates.
Sister Chen and her husband have been married for 22 years, and the relationship between husband and wife is still very loving and happy.
In the process of running a marriage, they also encounter many challenges, but the only thing that remains constant is that no matter how tired and busy they are, they will still talk deeply.
What thoughts and feelings are in your heart, what you want your partner to do, etc., will be expressed to each other.
Because of this habit, they understand each other very well, Sister Chen said that her husband is the person who understands herself in the world, and she rarely feels lonely and helpless.
Couples who can accompany each other until old age will often do these 3 things, and the person who accounts for each of them is the happiest.