I thought that the kissing session would go very smoothly, but I didn't expect that when the groom and his relatives were about to pick up the bride, he encountered an unexpected dilemma. At the gate of the bride's community, several strong men stopped the groom and his party, demanding that 30 articles must be preparedChinese cigarettesto pick up the bride.
Expansion: **In local customs, the man needs to prepare a certain bride price as a dowry, but usually, the requirements are not too harsh. However, this time the request clearly exceeded the man's expectations and caught them off guard. The attitude of the strong men is unacceptable, as if they are venting their dissatisfaction on the day of festivity. This scene shocked and helpless the surrounding residents, after all, they usually have one understanding of the link of picking up relativesChinese cigarettesor the specifications of the red envelope, I have never seen so many requested situations. This requirement undoubtedly makes the wholeWeddingsThe atmosphere became awkward and tense.
The man's relatives were blocked at the door, and when they heard this unreasonable condition, they were very angry and tried to negotiate a solution with the woman's strong man. However, the strong men of the women were uncompromising and insisted that there must be 30 articlesChinese cigarettes。Faced with this situation of not being able to back down, the groom had no choice but to make concessions and promised to provide 30 articlesChinese cigarettes, no less.
Expansion: For the groom and the man's relatives, such a request is undoubtedly an unreasonable and even deliberate embarrassment. They may have tried to negotiate and justify themselves in an attempt to find a fair and reasonable solution, but the arrogance and hard-line stance of the strong women made all efforts useless. Faced with such a situation, the groom reluctantly chose to compromise, hoping to let this embarrassing farce end as soon as possible. However, in his heart, he couldn't forget this scene, and this helplessness of being forced to compromise accompanied him forward.
Although the kissing session continued, the embarrassment in the groom's heart did not dissipate. He couldn't help but worry about whether he would encounter difficulties and incomprehension from the woman's relatives in his newlywed life. And the bride's performance and attitude in the man's home has also become a key issue. If she can understand that this marriage trouble is just a temporary confusion, and apologize for the mistake of this incident, and later educate her relatives over there not to repeat the incident, perhaps the man's family will also show her understanding. However, if she thinks that she is being saved face by her relatives for prestige, the family may fall into even greater contradictions and difficulties. How to deal with this problem is very important for the life of the young couple.
Expansion: **Bride asMarriageHer attitude and behavior play a key role in the harmony of the whole family. In the face of marriage, whether she can see the problem from it, and actively communicate and negotiate with the groom and the man's family, as well as apologize to them and express her willingness to change, is an important matter for the bride to consider. If she can take the initiative to face this incident and take this incident as a lesson and warning, then the man's family may be more likely to forgive her and establish a more harmonious relationship. However, if she thinks that what her relatives are doing is to earn face and show her prestige, then she is likely to face more difficulties and contradictions in her newlywed life. Her attitude and choices will affect her intimacy and happiness with the groom and the man's family.
Once married, it attracted the attention of many netizens. Most netizens have the same opinion on such marriage troubles: the bride is irresponsible, and the unreasonable demands of the woman's relatives also show that they are ignorant. Faced with such a situation, they advised the groom to leave and not to be united with such a family.
Expanding: **The opinions of many netizens represent people's opinions onMarriagein the pursuit of fairness and respect. They believe that the bride should take responsibility for her role in the family, rather than neglecting respect and understanding for each other for the sake of momentary prestige. And the behavior of the woman's relatives makes people question their upbringing and character, and feel that they are interested in this oneWeddingsThe sabotage was motivated by self-interest and deliberate provocation. In the eyes of netizens, between two familiesMarriageRelations should be based on equality and mutual respect, and excessive demands and provocations on either side can upset this balance. Therefore, they advise the groom to stay away from such a family and find a partner who is more understanding and supportive.
MarriageIt is a journey that requires joint efforts and understanding on both sides, and the kissing session is an important step in demonstrating family harmony and celebration. However, sometimes there are some people who do not know how to respect and cherish this feast of fate, and use the name of festivity to make things difficult for others. They make moments that should be flowing bliss awkward and tense, affecting the wholeWeddingsThe atmosphere and the relationship between the two families. In such an environment, both sides need to compromise and understand each other in order to build a harmonious and happy oneMarriage
From this incident, we can see:MarriageThe importance of communication and understanding. Both parties should respect each other's feelings and positions, not focus on their own interests, but work together to create a warm and harmonious family. At the same time,MarriageThe contradictions and problems also need to be faced and resolved in a timely manner, and disputes cannot be endlessly caused by momentary anger and dissatisfaction. Only through mutual understanding and tolerance,Marriagein order to go to a better tomorrow.
in the futureMarriageEach of us couples should strive to communicate and compromise well to avoid letting unnecessary quarrels and strife erode our love and family. Only by respecting and understanding each other can we create a happy family together.