The ancients said: "Unjust wealth is troublesome, and family harmony is enough even if it is poor." "The quality of the family is deeply engraved in the happiness of each member.
The excellent family atmosphere is like a warm spring breeze, warm and harmonious, like a steadily climbing ladder, leading family members to make progress together; On the contrary, a family with frequent contradictions and disputes is like sailing against the current, and it is often difficult to avoid the fate of decline.
Among the many factors that affect the rise and fall of a family, Feng Shui undoubtedly occupies a pivotal position.
If a family is fortunate enough to have the following three excellent feng shui patterns, it will surely be like a fish in water, prosperous, and the days will be more prosperous, and the family fortune will become more and more prosperous.
Diligent and thrifty family style
Zeng Guofan said: "The prosperity of a family lies in frugality, and the health of a person lies in diligence; If you can be diligent and thrifty, you will never be poor. "Diligence is the cornerstone of family revitalization, and thrift is the only way to maintain the family business.
In ancient times, there was a farmer who lived a life based on diligence and thrift, and lived a quiet and happy life. When he was dying, he passed on a plaque engraved with the word "diligence and thrift" to his two sons as a testament.
Later, when the brothers divided the family property, they sawed this plaque carrying the wisdom of their father's father in half. The eldest son inherited the "diligence", wearing the stars and the moon every day, working hard, and the fields were full of harvests every year. However, his wife was profligate, and even though the harvest was abundant, the family never had any surplus food.
Although the second son received the teaching of "frugality", he neglected farming and was lazy to cultivate, so the annual grain harvest was scarce. Despite the frugality at home, this lifestyle is not sustainable. Finally, when a major drought came, the two families fell into the predicament of having no food to eat.
Under the double oppression of hunger and hardship, the two brothers resented the "thrifty" plaque that was trampled on the ground and full of lessons. Just then, a gust of wind blew, and a note drifted in through the window. They hurriedly picked up the **, only to see that it was written: "Only diligent and not thrifty, like holding a leaky bottom bowl, no matter what, it can't be filled; If you are only thrifty and not diligent, you will only end up starving and suffering from poverty. ”
After reading this, the two brothers woke up like a dream, and since then they have deeply understood the truth of paying equal attention to diligence and thrift, and began to work hard, and their lives gradually became prosperous.
In the world, every family is like an invisible piggy bank, every drop of sweat will not be wasted, and every accumulation will be echoed by life.
Just like the wealth of a thousand gold, it is accumulated bit by bit; All abundance and prosperity is also the result of the hard work of each member of the family.
If you blindly indulge in appetite and neglect your work, no matter how solid your family is, you will inevitably fall into the abyss of decay; If you spend uncontrollably, even if your family wealth is abundant, it will one day be wiped out.
We must deeply understand that the way of diligence and thrift is not a stingy act, but a profound and long-term wisdom of life and a calm and open-minded attitude towards life.
When sitting on the wealth of the family, he can still uphold the principle of thrift and housekeeping, and is not driven by material desires; In the face of poverty, we can also rely on the spiritual strength of diligence and tenacity to work hard unswervingly.
Only by integrating the virtue of thrift into the family culture can the family ensure that they have food in their hands and no worries in their hearts, no matter whether it is good or bad, so as to achieve true peace and prosperity.
Virtue of kindness
There has always been a saying: "Good deeds will bring good results, and evil deeds will eventually pay for them." "Among the many families, there are those who sow love and accumulate virtue, and they are like gardeners who carefully plant good causes, and naturally reap the blessings of the tree.
There is a couple who have a son under their knees, but their constitution is weak and they are riddled with diseases all year round, which makes the life of the original poor family even more difficult, as if frost and snow are superimposed on the ice.
Despite the hardships of life, the couple always upheld the kindness and compassion of their hearts. They never spared their kindness in their modest efforts, whether they were helping the weak sparrows or giving alms to beggars on the streets.
By chance, they unexpectedly saved a wealthy businessman who was in distress. In gratitude for their life-saving grace, the wealthy merchant not only donated generously and took out a large amount of money to find famous doctors to treat his son's illness, but also sponsored him to receive education and study poetry.
With the help of wealthy merchants, their son grew stronger and more knowledgeable. In the end, he lived up to expectations, and he successfully obtained fame, entered the official career, and became an official of the imperial court.
As a result, the family's fortunes changed dramatically, and they lived a rich and happy life with the wealthy merchants. For a family, the most precious thing is not the fine clothes, but the inner quality of the family.
As contained in "Zhou Yi": "In the house of goodness, there must be afterglow; If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be remnants. "The profound blessings and good fortune in the world come from the kindness accumulated over time.
The thoughts, words and deeds of each family member are the bricks and tiles that build the future happiness building. Only by knowing how to take goodness as the root and make good connections can the family make steady progress on the long road of life and move towards long-term prosperity.
A tolerant mindset
In the treasure book of wisdom "Zengguang Xianwen", there is such a wise saying: "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky." "The power of tolerance is like spring breeze and rain, which can transform tension into harmony and beauty, and turn contradictions and conflicts into harmony and tranquility.
During the Ming Dynasty, there was a poet surnamed Yang, who was very knowledgeable and famous. One day, a neighbor lost a goose and insisted that it was stolen by the Yang family. When his wife informed the poet of this, he responded indifferently: "I am not the only family surnamed Yang in the world, let him go." ”
In the days that followed, on rainy days, the neighbor deliberately diverted the water from his house to the poet's house, which made his wife angry and complained. However, the poet always calmly said: "After all, there are always more sunny days than rainy days." ”
Day after day, the neighbors were deeply moved by the poet's magnanimity. One year, a group of thieves plotted to loot the Yang family's belongings, and the neighbors who learned the news resolutely decided to help the Yang family keep vigil to prevent thieves. In the end, not only did he succeed in avoiding the disaster, but the poet's family became more prosperous.
In life, friction and collision are inevitable, if you blindly care, you will only fall into endless disputes, and everything is difficult to fulfill people's wishes; If you are too picky, it will breed estrangement and drift away. Family should be a harbor full of love, not a battlefield for distinguishing right from wrong and fighting for victory.
Externally, we must learn to be humble and courteous; Internally, we must know how to be tolerant and considerate. Only by cultivating a tolerant mentality can we give the family the deepest and most powerful care, and make the family a happy land that nourishes the soul and carries happiness.
Someone pointed out with deep feeling: "A good family is worth far more than any mountain of gold and silver treasures." ”
In this vast world, the one who can withstand the tempering of daily trivial life and resist the baptism of years of wind and frost is undoubtedly the warm and happy family.
However, the well-being and rise and fall of a family does not come out of nowhere, but is deeply rooted in the careful management and care of each family member.
Only by upholding the good family style of diligence and thrift can the family prosper and prosper day by day; Only by practicing good and beautiful virtues can we win the rich rewards and blessings of life; Only with a tolerant and generous attitude can family harmony continue like a thin stream of water.
We sincerely invite you to light up and pay attention, and hope that we will work together to create a good family atmosphere and nourish the feng shui of the family with heart, so as to have a warm, comfortable, long-lasting and prosperous home.