Some people stay in marriage for a long time, and they will find it boring. At this time, if there is ** in the outside world, or if you meet someone you like, you will be ready to move, and once you take action, you will fall into the whirlpool of extramarital affairs.
Although extramarital affairs have a short-term freshness and excitement, most of the time they can only be fearful, cautious, and avoid people's eyes. Because they know in their hearts that after all, this is a dishonorable thing, and over time both parties will feel very tired.
The sweetness of extramarital affairs is very short-lived, after the initial happiness will soon cool down, it is destined to be a contest without winners, for yourself, for your lover, for the family is a final know, after a long time will become a shackle, overwhelming you. Extramarital affairs hurt your partner far more than a short period of joy, and when a man's passion gradually fades, he will find some excuse to distance himself from you and leave you.
Extramarital affairs are like poppies blooming in young life, which once fascinated people and made it difficult to extricate themselves, but in fact, they will taste pain until the end.
How to say goodbye to an extramarital affair and get out of it? First of all, we must have a sense of shame, and we should understand in our hearts that this is an immoral behavior that will have a negative impact on work, study, life, family, relatives and friends. Emotions that are not guaranteed by marriage cannot be maintained for a long time, and the heart will always be condemned by conscience and morality.
The second step is to gradually reduce the interaction and contact with the lover. No longer accept material gifts and financial assistance from the other party. No longer thinking about the good of the other person, putting yourself in a dilemma, and gradually getting rid of your dependence on your lover.
Forget the former mountain alliance and sea oath, and gradually return to the family. Life may be ordinary, but home is the real harbor. The sea of bitterness is boundless, and you must learn to cherish the people around you who really love you.
Don't complain, don't hold grudges, don't hate. The ordinary breakup gradually suppressed the emotions in the heart and restored the peace of the past. Think about the family, think about the parents, think about the children, think about the wife, think about the responsibilities. Passion is always just a momentary impulse, and love is a long-term dependence in life.
In fact, extramarital affairs are dressed in a beautiful cloak that makes it difficult to extricate oneself and eventually goes to sinking. The one who can really stay with you for the rest of your life is not a lover, and those who indulged in their youth will be very miserable in old age. Therefore, when the extramarital affair is still underground and not known to the acquaintances of both parties, quietly withdrawing is the best option.
People with good hearts and integrity, most husbands and wives are loving and harmonious, and their families are happy and prosperous. Those who have a decent style and a righteous body have a clean heart and no pollution, have a stronger memory and thinking, are easy to make achievements in work and study, and have a more stable social status. A person who is upright, energetic, has strong ability to act, does things vigorously and resolutely, and can achieve a career. If you want to have a good life and change your fate, you must avoid extramarital affairs.