01 Wu Xieyu, an excellent student at Peking University, killed his mother in 2015. No one can believe that such a child with excellent character and learning would brutally kill his mother. This is, of course, an extreme case. The story of the case will not be repeated here. Wu Xieyu's behavior was of course wrong and illegal.
But I would say that he was just trying to survive. The scary thing is that the price is too great. It's devastating for both mother and self.
Why is he just trying to survive? Because there are two souls living in his body. Mom and herself. Wu Xie Yu lost his father very early. His mother pulled him up alone. There are not a few families like this, but Wu Xieyu's mother is an extreme controller.
She has always controlled the child and made the child that he is that good person. In the end, she succeeded, but Wu Xie Yu was about to "die". In psychology, this is called "symbiotic strangulation". Wu Xie Yu has a self, her mother has a self, but the mother puts all the self on the child's body, and the child lives for the mother every day. The mother's ego grows stronger, and the child's ego shrinks until it is on the verge of death. Wu Xie Yu did something irreparable for a lifetime for the last glimmer of life - killing his mother. Only by destroying that strong mother can the weak self have room to survive.
is excellent in character and learning, but he can't hide his true depravity.
Because Wu Xie Yu's ego has long been dying, his existence has no sense of meaning. He made his appearance glamorous for his mother, but subconsciously he had a deep sense of unworthiness. So after his mother's death, he began to truly live according to his subconscious intentions.
He started his life in a nightclub. Sexual consumption is on a rampage. This is vindictive, and of course it may have something to do with the death of his father back then.
No matter how outrageous it is, it is actually his self-help behavior. Once the life that has been controlled for a long time gets out of control, it will experience a dark moment. 03
Wu Xieyu's original verdict was a capital offense.
However, in January, the news broke that "Wu Xie Yu has a strong desire to survive", and the lawyer submitted a legal opinion not to approve Wu Xie Yu's death sentence. Whatever the means, as long as a person wants to live according to his own wishes, he must have the act of self-help. It's just that Wu Xie Yu's behavior is too extreme. He can complete the psychological "mothericide" through an effective way. In this way, he can not only save himself, but also his mother.
And now, even if his capital crime is forgiven, the rest of his life will be lived in remorse.
It's embarrassing.
It also reminds us as parents of what is the right way to love our children. Under the appearance of high education and excellent moral character, the child has no really strong heart. Is he living for himself or for his parents. One body can never live with two souls. 